Me and my fiance has been together going on 8 years we've split up for 7 months after our son was born i am 22 and he's 24 but he has never been affectionate only when he wants to have sex or sucking up about something we have been through a lot together, I love him very much and i like to be affectionate and we fight a lot about why he isn't... he always says he's to tired or not in a very good mood the 1st 2 years he was great i know it's confusing but if you know that he truly cares for you and loves you don't sweat it not all guys are affectionate they have a hard time showing it.

By Stephanie

My problem is that I came to America new and am from Nigeria. Am in school here in new jersey and i saw this girl that i really love and i want to be with, i told her what is in my mind thats i love her, she said i have to give her some time to think about it if am a honest and if am a guy to be trusted. It took her almost 2 to 3 weeks to think about it, she called me and said that she only want us to be best friends. So what will i do to make her love me pls... i really love this girl.

By Sadiq

Answer:

I am sorry to say that the best thing you can do is contend with the friendship she is offering. She does not seem to have made the decision lightly.
I think you should strive to be the best friend you can be to her for the time being. Respect her decision, and hopefully she may come to appreciate your loyalty, and reward you with the affections you seek.

What if I was in love with a boy that my friend use to be in love with and go with, what should I do?

By Chelsea

Answer:

It is quite a delimma you seem to be in. Even if your friend is no longer in love with this boy, she is bound to be resentful.
My initial advise to you is just forget about it, usually these relationships at your age do not last very long anyway. Loyalty in friendship is much more important.

Hi, this is a weird situation I am in. It all started October year 06, i met this guy from a friend at a party. We right away got along and i really thought he was a sweet guy. He had an awesome personality, but I wasn't too excited meeting him. He was a different kind of guy that I dated... he was more nerdy but not all the way since he did party he just seems like a total sweetheart like he would never hurt a girl. He started asking me out on dates, and we went on a few. He was a total gentleman just as I expected, he kinda called me a lot too but for some reason i wasn't way into him, maybe cause he was easy to get.

In a relationship since 11 months, she is separated with her husband who was
no where in the picture till last 2 months, she loves me, doesn't want to go
back to him, but confused as her son is with him and she wants her son, i am
hyper too which she hates.

By Mann

Answer:

Dear Mann,

Who of us does not have faults??? you say you are hyper, a characteristic that the woman you love does not like. I am sure she would not be with you, if it was affecting her so much. Try and tone it down a bit, if you think it is causing problems.

Hi, i been having some problems lately and i feel it is affecting my love life. Few months back i finally got together with my high school sweetheart so to speak. She's the girl I've been hung up on since 11 grade. We had feelings for each other we just never said them because of fear of ruining the friendship because neither of us knew how each other felt. She was also in a complicated relationship of three years in the end at the time.

I was dating this guy about two years ago we were having lots of problems so we separated in the process I got pregnant by someone else. Now it's been two years I seen him and told him how I felt and how much I have missed him, only thing he told me was that he couldn't have sex with me because he had feelings for me, I don't get it. I live in another state now but I want us to be back together or in the process. I know that I hurt him (he hurt me too) but why is it taking so long for him to get over it? or maybe should I just say forget it.

Christine

I've been with enough people to know what i want, then i met this one girl, we kicked it off you know she would try to get my attention, tell me things she told no one else etc... so i asked her out and she said yes and it seemed as if it was all good, but then she tells me not to like her and such bit i know that she is the one that I've been looking for all my life, i don't want to let her go, so any help?

Don

Hi i'm 16 and i am in love with a girl also 16, this is not the first time, but this time my feelings are stronger then i ever felt before.

I want to be with her but she lives in England and I live in Norway and she doesn't know i even exist. I know that i'm never going to be with her so my question is how can i stop being in love?

Ken

HI, I am 15 and I am just a normal teenager. I am in grade 10 and probably considered to be above average in the popularity status and I really like this boy in grade 11 who is very unpopular (though I hate using
stats) but I really don’t know him all that well. I sometimes associate with his sister in my grade but I find it hard to get to know him. I really want to but I feel that it is too late. Here is what happened about 8 months ago.

I started to notice him and I told a few of my friends and they said I should tell him though I didn’t know him.
The first problem is: Can u like someone u don't know?
Anyway I told him face to face at my birthday down at the beach. Him with a few of his friends and walked with my friends. They ran up to him and brought him over and it just slipped out and I told him.
I agreed to get to know him better and that we'd talk at school but I never showed. I couldn’t face him and I never went to see him at school and it is now 8 months later. I still really like him but I was hesitant to talk to him as I heard a lot of mixed reactions from his friends and people.

A guy liked me for a long time and was aggravating me everyday telling me I was fine and he wanted to go with me, but I never ever liked him, so I got tired of him messing with me, so I went with him for about three weeks and I started liking him more and more but he doesn’t act the same like he use to be crazy over me but now its like he doesn’t really care, so what should I do? Should we stop talking, or stay together? What should I do, please help me!

For a while now… I've liked one of my very good friends, I've told him and I do have another friend (a female), whose brother is good friends with the one I like. She always tells me that he says nice things all the time, and always wants me to come around and be with them… for instance, last weekend, we all went to some party, but as I was getting directions, on the phone with her, he was in the background, telling her to tell me that he wants me to go, and then when it comes to school, he still does come around me, and gives me hugs quite a bit… but its just all so confusing because I am scared to talk to him about my true feelings.

I believe myself to be in love; I met this man and on the first night I saw him I felt this emotional connection with him. I can look deep into his eyes and my eyes get heavy yet I want to leave them open just to stare at him. The more I sat with him the more I felt the need to say I love you. My heart beats faster when I hear his voice or talk to him. I, for some reason, needed to meet him when I saw his picture and I can't explain why. I feel this overwhelming feeling of love coming off of him when ever he is around.

He makes me feel safe all the time and we can just sit and stare at each other for hours with out saying a word. When we are together I have no cares and I am off in a world where nothing matters, I can't hear a thing. He gives me chills when he touches me. What’s it all mean?

How do you really know he does not love you anymore?
Example: He lives 2.5 hrs away, I used to go there any time I wanted, until he bought a home and said this is the first time he had ever bought a home without a wife.
Calls don't come that much anymore but when I am there on my weekends off he is very attentive to me and my needs.

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