I've known a guy since we were 11 - we were classmates - and we are now almost 20. He liked me in 7th grade but it was a kids' thing and we dated for 3 days, however, I know I hurt him. I always felt attracted but I was after other guys.

All these years we've been going out with our old classmates and doing things together and we always had a connection although he never really opens up.

I fell for this guy who works in my office from day one!
I never had the chance to tell him that I've got feelings for him.
Currently we're best friends and he's gotten married recently.
I see him and his wife everyday, because she also works in the same building.
It breaks my heart to see them together! I'm trying to get over it but i can't!

Why is it so hard to move from someone you love? Why does it still hurt even though we are over?

By Faith

I love him so much but he is married!
In the beginning i told him i cannot go on with him because he is married. He told me that it's OK, because he has lots of problems with his wife!
We started meeting more and i totally fell for him.
He used to call me many times every day but now things have changed! He stopped calling me and when i call him he says he's very busy and doesn't call back!
What has happened? What should i do?

Fatima

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I met him during summer vacation and when I first saw him I wasn't really interested in him.
I liked his friend more, yet I always noticed the way he kept looking at me from time to time. As the days went by, I realized that his friend is really lame and childish and then one day we sat together and we talked a lot about many things, we played cards and laughed like hell. I thought he was great and funny and mature. I liked him a lot. That night we went to the beach with all of our friends, we stayed till the sunrise and I knew from his friends that he's heading back to Cairo. I was devastated. I wanted to spend more time with him and know him more. Anyways, after sometime I noticed he was walking towards his car and that he kept looking at me as if he wanted to say something, but he still left with no word or even a goodbye.

My boyfriend and i have been together for a few months. I met him in college, he was my classmate. at the time we met, i already had a BF but our relationship was on the break.
Now we're together, but he's soon going to leave and go back home because he's finished his studies!
I'll also finish in January, which means we'll surely go our separate ways!
I feel so sad ... this is the end! I won't be able to meet him again.
He told me to take it easy and just let things be. Easier said than done!
How can i let it all go so easily? I love him!

Nella

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My life is perfect in every single way, except when it comes to love!
Two years ago when I just got to high-school, I met a girl. I liked her so much but I began to act weird in front of her! Sometimes I was even a big idiot. This way she never got to know the real me. However, she didn't act strange at all. She was her normal self, which is so awesome. I'm in love with her.
I later felt so bad I got to a point that I just walked across the house, back and forth thinking about her, about how awesome she is, and how stupid it was of me to act so odd every time she was around! I even refused 5 girls that were in love with me, since I knew they couldn't replace her! Therefore, I can't be complete without her.

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I'm crazy in love with my colleague, but she has a boyfriend! She likes me as a friend! She always ask support from me and says sweet things to me. I just can't take it anymore! I changed my job! Spent a year trying not to think about her! Threw away all possibilities to contact her. People asked me to love someone else! I failed!
One day i came across her while driving! That was when everything came back to me and i felt this strange thing in the stomach! Then she contacted me ! I tried to be severe by rejecting her! I failed! She's experiencing a difficult period so I'm back to supporting her for the last 9 months through messenger even though we are in the same city! I always refuse to contact her because I love her and don't want to hurt her! But I love her and she likes me as a friend. I wish I can be a friend but I love her and just can't forget her!! Help me I'm in a bad mood!!

FedUp

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One of our readers, Shadia, has sent in a critical question, asking what to do in her difficult case.
She's a Muslim and she's in love with a Christian. She asks what she can do to be with him?

Well, Shadia ... I'm not going to sugar coat the answer for you because this is serious.
In Islam, a man can marry a woman not from his religion, but a woman is not allowed to do the same.
If you want details, it'll take a very long time, but in short, you can't marry a Christian because your kids will follow their dad's religion! Simple and straight forward.

I love my classmate to death and i have a feeling that he loves me too.
I always spot him looking at me and smiling in a lovely way, but he haven't told me yet if he loves me or not. I'm sure he knows that i love him.
What can i do to have him and to be with him? Because of our culture i cant tell him directly that i love him, but he is always on my mind.
What should i do to have love relation with him???

yasna

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I'm a 25-year-old married lady. I never dated before getting married and i've never really fallen in love, well maybe once!
I love my husband but i can't forget my past love .. I regret that i couldn't break the chains and just love and be loved .. now it's too late .. I'm married and he's engaged!!!

Deema

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I have been best friends with a guy for almost 4 years now. I love him to death and i know that i can't live without him. I've tried.
When we first met, we grew on each other fast. We both secretly had something for each other. I told him i liked him and he said he didn't see me like that and didn't want to mess up our friendship. He later came to confess that he had always had feeling for me and that if we would have tried it out we would have been together. Nothing happened for about 6 months. Then i had my first real kiss and it was with him!
June through January we had something, we were best friends and a bit more.

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I've been talking with this guy that i met online on and off now for about a few years.
He's been trying to get me to meet him, but I've been hesitant about it because of insecurities. Well, we just started talking again and he tells me that he wants to get married and have children with me and that he's ready to get our relationship started. I'm ready to
see him now, but it worries me because he doesn't really call me. I'm the one who has to contact him!
I've confronted him about the situation and he apologizes but never seems to do what he says he's going to do. Why does he tell me that he likes me and cares about me and then ignores me? Why lead me on? Should i forget about him and move on?

Chandra

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I just recently got married (2 months ago) and my husband says he loves me and he buys me stuff all the time but he hardly ever kisses me or holds me or hugs me, he hardly shows me affection!

What does this mean?

Sara