I have known my love for over five years now. We dated for two great years. The last three years we have seen each other, and always stayed in touch. Distance is a problem. I have told her many times that I'm waiting for her, she is still all about going out and partying. I feel like she is never going to get past that. I love her. Is it possible to change? Should she? And should I be worried she only hangs out with guys?

Andy