Love & Romance: Q & A 3


There’s this girl at my school that use to stare at me a lot and I started to like her but then she stopped! But I want to talk to her and I’m too shy to say hi because she might think I’m ugly!

Judy

I have known him since 12 years, he is my class but since a year we became best friends. Even he isn't my type, I loved him because I was alone and he showed me that he's interested about me too but he didn't say any word. When we are alone he appreciates me and acts as lovers but with friends he stays acting as a friend -just friends-. But after the summer he became another person ...

This guy really likes me and he asked me out. I said yes, because I didn’t want to hurt his feelings. I do not like him the way he likes me and I just want to be friends. My friends always get us to hug and kiss, but it just doesn’t feel right to me. I still want to be friends but I don’t want to hurt his feelings, what should I do?

Courney

I have a problem; every guy I go out with only likes me for my looks. How do I get at least one guy to like me for who I am?

CheerNbebi

I have REALLY liked my friend for about six months now, he doesn’t know that
I like him, but I am afraid to tell him or do anything because we see each other almost every day, and I do not want things to become awkward. He is two years older than me (which is another reason why I’m afraid to tell him, he may think I’m ok as a friend, but nothing more) I don’t know what to do anymore, I keep liking him more and more, and I know I need to tell him, I just don’t know how.
Can you help me? Should I tell him? And how?

Klet

I have a problem. I have been dating this guy. We have known each other for about 3 months, he is 21 and I am 25, and he calls us just friends. Although we talk all the time on the phone and when we talk for hours and laugh and I just have a really awesome time every time we hang out which is like 3 or 4 times a week. We go out clubbing and drinking and dancing.

I know a woman that was introduced to me by a family member. We both work from the same company but at different locations. Every time she sees me or I talk to her she starts to either get nervous or begins to blush. I want to send her flowers even though I have only known her for a little over 2 months. I have not asked her for her phone number nor had an actual date with her due to work conflicts at the present time.
Should I send flowers to signal some sort of intent or would that be too much?

Serg

My girlfriend and I have had a stormy relationship for 4 years. The fact of the matter is we both love each other. The issue is her daughter of 27 years.
Verbally attacked her, says she hates me and will not ever speak to her mom again as long she is with me. Her daughter has made some poor choices herself and her mom always supported her. Given no choice my girlfriend will have to choose between her daughter and me, blood is thicker than water.

Is the daughter being selfish?
Should I leave the relationship now?

ajoe007

I feel like dying. I am 31 and I don’t have anyone in my life. I’m living a routine.

Pascale

I love this guy he is a far cousin of mine since 4 years ago. He sometimes holds my hand and sometimes I really think he loves me. When we travel he comes and stays with us because he is a good friend of my brother but then they had a little argument and don’t talk that much now. Now when I see him I feel like telling him I love him,
I really do love him but I can’t tell him that I love him, I am too shy and I am too scared to tell him incase I get hurt.
I don’t know what to do and everyday I see him I get too shy to even tell him hi.

Please tell me what to do?

MunMun

I fell in love with the ex-friend of a good friend. He loves me too but I am afraid that my friend wouldn't talk to me anymore if I start a relationship with him. My friend says that she wants me to start with him a relationship and that she would be glad if we are a couple but I don't believe in her words. I don't know what to do. Please help me.

Rania

I have known this boy for a year. We broke up last month. His friends were telling him that I was cheating on him. Last night he told me I was special in is life and he lost it when we broke up. What should I do? What should I tell him?

P.S.
He still tells me he loves me.

Kiwi

There is this boy who I just met in the beginning of the school year. He has always thought of me as one of his best friends and a good friend of mine his best friend too. About the middle of the year I finally told someone that I really liked him and my good friend asked him out for me.
He said no because he gave up girls!!! So after Easter another friend of mine asked him out for me and he said no once again. But it’s weird because when she asked him he was like uhhhh … she was like so will u? And he goes no but slowly said it and didn’t sound sure about it. I really like him. I caught him looking at me at lot when we had classes together.

I have been dating this guy for about 2months now. For the first month, things were great; he came to meet my parents as my boyfriend about 3weeks ago.
I am a very sensitive person. Spending time together is very important to me.
For the past few weeks, he has been so busy and it’s been a week now since we saw each other. We live in the same community. I am not happy with this because we don’t get to spend time together anymore.