Recently I have been feeling really confused about a guy mate of mine who I've known for about 2 years. When I'm with him I feel really weird. I've found when we all sit on the tables in the form room I seem to find I’m sitting myself close to him so we are touching and looking at him a lot. The thing is I don't feel attracted to him physically and he's not the kind of guy I usually like. But today I found I really wanted to kiss him.
I really don't think that he likes me but I really need help because I'm confused and I don't know what to do. I really don't want to ruin our friendship because he is a really good mate.

Alice

I broke up with my boyfriend because he cheated on me. I am falling in love with a guy whom I met over the net. He is a Trinidadian like myself. He has a child who lives in Trinidad. I have met with him and his family. He is talking about marriage. He is 29. Now I am falling back in love with my ex. My ex wasn’t nice to me. He cheated with a woman with 2 children, she is much older than him. She got pregnant for him twice.
What do I do? Should I give up both men and get my life back in order. I pray that one day I would forget about all of this and start over. But I have been with my boyfriend for 3 years, 7 months and 2 weeks. How could he not love me? I don’t know what to do again.

Faith

I met this guy a few months ago and we became very close. He always calls me or I call him. The problem is that I started having feelings for the guy but he is younger than me. Secondly, I don’t know if he likes me because we are not staying in the same hometown. I have told him once before that I like him a lot and that we could try to work something out and he has been nice to me, always “smsing” me or calling me in the night, but he never told me how he feels. Should I tell him again how I feel about him or should I just let go and be friends as it was before?

Margreth

I am so sad and I am so alone. I need anyone who can understand me. I don’t know why I am sad! There is no reason, I am so bored and I can’t be happy in anything, I am always in a bad mood and I am so interested in satanic stuff maybe that’s the reason to my crazy and bad mood but I really wish that I can find a solution to my problem.

Satanicgirl

I was involved with a guy while I was at high school for a year (last Year), so this year I came to university & met someone that I love very much now. The problem is I don’t love my high school boyfriend any longer, but he still loves me. I don’t know how to tell him that I’ve lost feelings for him.
Please help. (I love my current boy friend and don’t want him to find out about this).

By TSEBO

I’m an 18-year-old lesbian and I was wondering ok if an ex calls u while her girl ain't there is that like weird i mean because my ex did that and I’m like ok she is calling to talk as more then a friend because if she was calling as just a friend you'd think she'd call while her girl was there ...

I was with this guy only for 3 days I didn't like him at first but now I am in love with him. after we broke up I would talk to him every single day, my feelings tell me that he cares for me but after he went to another state he doesn't even ask about me. I feel hurt because though he doesn't love me I have these really strong feelings for him. I know I should forget him but I always see dreams and signs telling me not to leave him. Though he considers us friends my question is do I stay and how do I know if he loves me back but doesn't want to show it?

Lola

I have been best friends with this guy for almost 10 years. We have been to college, to vacations etc. together. ONLY as friends. In the past he used to like me for a brief while but I never saw him as a man as I do now. He was younger then and not my type or so I thought. And the physical attraction was not there.
Anyhow, we moved in together because of problems in my house and I needed to get away.

I love a guy who I think loves me too. I told his best friend who is mine too and he told me that he is free and he is searching. He is with me at school and I watch him every day and his best friend told me that he was coming to ask me out but something happened and changed his mind. His best friend wants me to tell him my feelings but I am not sure if he will accept that because we are not so close to know if he likes me or not. What can I do next, should I tell him without fear or do something else? Please tell me, I am so in need for your advice as soon as possible.

I have been dating this girl for 2 years now, and we are just now experiencing a problem. It seems she still has a "crush" on a boy she has known since 1st grade. She says her feelings are strong for the both of us. This guy doesn’t want her for a girlfriend but she continues to feel this way after all these years. She doesn’t want to like him and neither do I want her to, so is there any suggestions on what to do about this.

Mike

I’m madly in love with this guy. We are both in love, until one day I decided that our relationship couldn’t go on, because my family doesn’t know about it.
He begged me to stay and said that he wants to marry me and call my father and explain that he wants to marry me, but I said no way because at that time I was way too young only 14 years and so that idea went completely out the window. He was 18 at that time. We haven’t spoken for 4 years and I just want to know if he is still alive and if he is okay...

I love her a lot, I know that she also loves me a lot, but the problem is, who will say it first. We both want to say, she is thinking that I will say at first, me also thinking like that, any way I’ll wait some more days also, after that I will say it to her, if she say no, I can't even imagine that...may be she also thinking like this. That’s the problem between us.

ashposh

There is this guy that I've had a major crush on and I finally got the nerve to talk to him. I found out that he really likes me too. I gave him my number. Problem is when he’s around me he acts really nervous like I am going to bite him. I know he likes me, but what's the problem?

ya-ya

My problem isn't usual I think. I am attracted to a guy that is in my class and I think that he loves me. I asked him more than one time “whom do you love”? But he didn't anything. And even if he loves me I don't think he will tell me because I am the ex girlfriend of his best friend and he thinks that he needs permission from my ex boyfriend or he thinks that I still love his best friend. What shall I do? Shall I tell him my feelings even if I am not sure about his feelings or shall I ask him another time or do something else?
Please tell me.

Racha