My Man is Not Affectionate

I'm 18 and I have a 22-year-old boyfriend and well we're sort of a weird couple. My man is not an affectionate person, he doesn’t hold hands, he hardly kisses me and we fight all the time. I have told him I love him but he says he can never love again after his last relationship. I have been trying to open him up you know find out who he really is but it is hard. We barley have a sex life any more cause he says that I make him mad and turn him off but I don't know how. He's a very difficult person but I do love him what should I do? Help!

Amy Payne

Should I Leave My Boyfriend ?

I’m an Egyptian living in Saudi Arabia and I’m studying I.G.C.S.E. In school since 3 years I’ve loved a guy and he loved me very much too. Then I went to Egypt and when I came back after 2 years I knew that he still loves me and I really do but there was something standing between us who is my brother; he’s refusing that I have a boyfriend or to love someone and then my brother left for his A levels and then I went out with this guy behind everyone’s back and now I have a very big problem which is that my brother is coming back in one week and he will know from his friends and I’m afraid of mom too because she doesn’t let love because she is saying that this is childish love. Anyway now I do not know what to do.
Shall I leave my boyfriend and I know it’s too hard or shall I face the problems that will face me.

Mira

Is he just playing ?

There is a boy in my school that I like, so I met him, we spent a day at the beach together he told me stuff and told me he could love me and on the messages he sends me really romantic stuff. After two days I found out from my friend in his class that he is only playing and he also tells me that he doesn’t want a girlfriend now but he told me he loved me and I don’t know who to believe and I don’t know what to do? What should I do?

Nadine

Should i give him a chance ?

My friend has confessed his feelings towards me. Actually he's a very nice guy. He always gives me support and encourages me when I’m studying abroad. He calls me, sms’s me and emails me and cares for me although we are far away from each other. I like him too but I’m not sure whether I love him. Can you help me? Should I further our relationship? Should I give him a chance?

Tasya

I Love Him More Than He Loves Me

It’s weird but i love him so much, we are getting married next August, but i feel i love him more than he does, he is over seas so our relationship is through the internet or the phone, and i feel he is always busy to talk to me, i know he works and every thing but on the weekend i know nothing about him but through out the week we talk cause he is always on line due to his work so i am able to talk to him, i just feel he is fed up with me, so i feel i love him more than he does, what shall i do? How can i deal with him? Shall i stay the same?

Nancy

Head Over Heals in Love

I've known my best mate for about 5 years now, the trouble is that I’m hopelessly and head over heels in love with her. She has no idea how i feel as i don’t want to ruin our friendship, i can’t even have a proper relationship now because all i think about is her, and lately she seems to have been avoiding me, she’s been going out with different people and not bothering to ring or txt me when I’ve rang her, we barely meet any more as well is that some kind of sign? And what shall i tell her?

Rich

I Wish to Have a Boyfriend

I’m a girl who wishes to have a boyfriend like others but I can’t. The problem is that my family forced me to not have any guys in my life. i don’t know what to i do. Please help me.

the sad girl

I've Fallen in Love with Him; He's Gay!

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I've fallen deeply in love with my best friend - and he's gay. A week ago we went out, had quite a lot to drink, and ended up kissing passionately and biting and holding each other; then he told me that I've turned him bisexual, and he loves me. The problem is, in the morning, he swore he didn't remember a thing. I don't know if he genuinely doesn't, or he didn't want to say anything in front of anybody else, or he's embarrassed and just wants to forget about it. I'd ask him about it but don’t want to scare him. If I tell him how I feel he might not speak to me again and I couldn't survive without him. I really just don't know what to do. How can you force yourself to fall out of love with someone? Please, I just need advice. Please help!

Lily

I Can't Marry Her Because of My Dignity

Two years ago when i was still in college I got acquainted to a very cute and charming girl, we built a strong friendship (me, her and another friend) we promised one another that nothing will break as apart. No day passed without seeing each other. we did every thing together (reading, going out, etc…). Then came a day when she told us that some one has asked for her hand and that he is living abroad, she asked about our opinion and we told her that it is she who should choose.

She accepted the guy and they got engaged and we attended their party. And it was just then that I discovered that i love her but I couldn't tell her. After that her fiancée went back to Germany to arrange for her coming. He was a good guy and he understood our friendship and respected it. He spent six months there. During this period we graduated and she found a job with a British company here in Iraq.

Fear of Talking About my Feelings

My problem is that i can’t express my feelings to my best friend; I always just keep it inside until i calm down or it just goes away. If something is bothering me, and my best friend asks me what is wrong i tell her that its nothing and it makes her mad because she says she can’t get close to someone if they can’t talk about everything and be open with her. The reason i can’t talk about my feelings is that i feel like it will cause more problems or she wont be friends with me anymore because of the reasons that make me mad or irritated, and i need help with getting over this fear of talking about my feelings because i want to get closer to my friend, i try to tell her how i feel but it never comes out and i end up being rude or mean to her when i don’t mean it to come out that way, and i often get nervous when she confronts me about it and i don’t know what to say back to her. How can i express my feelings?

Woman

We Broke Up Because of People's Talk

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I have a question; I do not know what to do? I still like my ex boyfriend a lot and we havent talked to each other for almost a year. We broke up because a lot of people started telling him that I was going out with some other guy at school and some people told me that he was the one who was going out with some other girl. His family does not like me and I know that he loved me a lot but I do not know if he still loves me and I do not want to call him and ask him, because he might not love me anymore. And I am scare to find out that he might have a girlfriend. What should I do? I sent him some songs but my phone number is private so he does not know that it is I who is sending the songs but at the same time I think he knows it is I because the other day someone sent me a song. I think it was him.

Yesica

Two Boys on My Mind

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On Friday in my science class I was sitting next to my friend Zack and we were supposed to have partners in this science class, so Zach and i were partners. While we were sitting together he was touching me like he usually does, but the boy i like Nigel was watching us like a hawk as he always looks at me. He knows i like him but i don't know if he like's me or not and i don't know what to do. Help me please!

Augustine

I’m Falling Apart Without Letting Her Know

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I don't know what to say, I don't know what to do, and I’m falling apart without letting her know. We are such close friends but the problem is that she has a boyfriend. I love her but also I want her to be happy even if that means not being with me so if you can give me a way to forget my love or a way to make her share my feelings.

"AdOnIsS"

I Feel No Love for Him

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I am involved with someone at this moment and I feel no love for him or everyone else. What should I do?

Maryellen

A Tunisian Summer Fling

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I went out this summer with a guy. First I took our relation for passing time and especially that he lives in a foreign country and comes here just in the summer holidays.
But with time loving him grew in my heart. Now he is in France and I am sitting here in Tunisia thinking of him. He doesn’t call anybody here not his best friends or even me. I really miss him but I think that he doesn't really care because if I don't call him, he never does. He says that he doesn't call even his family here and it's true but I want him to show me that I exist for him. This summer he will come and I don't know what to do. Have I got to ignore him? I can't forgive him for not calling me. I told him to end our relationship but he is insisting and honestly I don't know why. Maybe he wants someone with whom he can spend summer her in Tunisia. I am really suffering. Please help me and tell me what to do!

Linda

I Love My Cousin

I'm a really smart girl and a good one too. I love my cousin. And I can't share my feelings with anybody because they're going to say that I'm stupid. I can't believe it even my sisters are saying that I'm stupid. I just thought if I could share my feeling on the Internet. Is it good or bad to love my cousin? Please can you guys help me with my feelings? Please I don't want to stay alone.

Sleena

I Like Him and I Want to Tell Him

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I like this guy at school; he is my friend. But I like him so much that I want to tell him I like him but don’t know how.
He might already know but he doesn't “like” me and he is only being polite by not saying anything! What should i do?
Please help!
Dory

Falling in Love with my Best Friend

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I've liked this girl for a while, we’re pretty good friends, but I think I’m starting to fall for her. My friends have been urging me to tell her how I feel about her, but I don’t want her to feel awkward and ruin the friendship we have. So should I tell her or not and if so do you have any tips?
Vic

I am Afraid of Her Reaction

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I’ve loved this girl since i was 8 years and I cant express my feelings. i am afraid of her reaction. i decided to call her and tell her, but I am afraid of the problems that will result on my doing if I call her.

Ahmed Kataya

I'm Going to Explode

Should I say I love him? Should I say I am fond of him? Should I say I am stuck on him? Or should I say I am sick from his love?

I love a guy more than he can love himself. I really want just a sight from him. He is a guy from my highschool. I love him since a year. I am going to explode. I can't resist anymore. We talk a little together because one of my friends (a girl) is his friend too. We talk just when she is with us. I can't tell her that I love him because she is so cruel and she will tell everybody. I swear if he knw me well he will love me and he will prefer me for her. I am sufferin. I can't tell him that I love him. It's so hard to tell a boy that you love him. I wish I were a boy to could tell my feelings without shame or hesitation. Please have I to tell him? No it's hard.

Me & Love Again

It's been a while since i loved or even liked anybody, I have fallen in love only once in my life, but we broke up three years ago, i thought me and love would never be on the same track anymore, but couple of weeks ago i started a training for my new job, and there he was... a light in the darkness, he is my trainee, once i laid my eye on him, i had a feeling i never experienced before, i just felt i knew this person all my life, like i knew this voice, that way of talking, and this look, i liked everything about him, when he talks it feels like i must have known him in another life...

My Highschool Sweetheart

How am I supposed to get over my highschool sweetheart? I'm still madly in love with her. We went out in the tenth grade and ended a year later. Here it is 4 years later, almost 5 and I'm still in love with her.

But she isn't with me. I tell her that we are just friends because she would have nothing to do with me if she knew I was still in love with her.
The biggest twist: I just cut her off from being friends because I can't hide my feelings for her anymore as if they didn't exist. I still find myself thinking of her day and night. however, I really, really, want to get over her but I don't know how.

Can you please help me out?

Joseph

She is My Other Half

Hi, My best friend and i met about 7 years ago and we still together now, i love her very much she's my other half when i feel sad i just see her or call her then i feel good. But the main problem is i don't feel that she loves me as she did before year by year i feel that she is far from me.. now i cry a lot because i can't forget all the wonderful memories, in the past we were togeher and now no. I tried many times to be as we were in the past -2 sisters- i found it difficult. Please help me.

Zozo

He's Trying to Control Us

I want to move me and my 13 year old daughter in with my boyfriend, but he won't let us put any of our furniture out, or let me hang any of my pictures or put my nick-nacks around. He says it's his house and if he didn't like HIS stuff he would have gotten rid of it.

Now he won't even let me bring up anything about moving in. I want to make plans and fix up the room to be my daughters, he insists he wants us there, or "he would have told us not to come" but I feel like he's trying to control us. I have to give notice at my apartment in a month and I don't know what to do.

Lucy

Ruin Our Friendship

Ok, I think that I have fallen in love with this guy. I constantly think of him... I write his name out subcontiously all the time... and i really want to tell him how i feel.. the only thing is that we are friends.

We arent REALLY good friends but we are friends.. and i see him every single day (and would still have to no matter what) i really dont want to ruin our friendship because i dont know if he likes me or not (he is also 2 years older) im really stuck here.. what should i do?

Klet

Shy Guy

Well I'm going out with this guy but we dont seem to talk , and we dont kiss , what shall I do?

Tasha

Surprised by Asking Her Out

I recently had an experience with a girl who only wanted to be friends, and I'm not sure what went wrong. I originally met Jenny in a bar about four months ago and I thought we hit it off quite well. She and a friend had just moved to the area and they didn't really know anyone, so she was happy to meet a nice guy like myself. She asked for my email address and said she was going to email me about hanging out in the future.

However, when I asked for her phone number, she didn't give it to me saying she had my email address and that was good enough. I took this to mean she wasn't really interested in me and I forgot about her (and I never got an email from her either). Sure enough, three whole months later, I'm in a bar when I see a girl coming towards me with an excited look on her face. It was Jenny! And boy was she happy to see me. Before I could say anything, she started apologizing profusely for not sending me an email, saying she had lost the paper that had my address on it. She then began asking me what I was doing on weekends and saying how she wanted to hang out really badly. (She said she was still having a hard time meeting new people). She also asked for my phone number, which I gave her, and this time she was happy to give me her phone number also. So after that night I was excited and thought she was definitely into me, because she didn't have to come up and say hi to me in the bar, she could have just ignored me or pretended she didn't see me...

Love Since Primary School

I love this boy and he loved me in primary school and looks at me all the time; we're in the same math class and we always look at eachother.

I love him so much i just want 2 know if he does too; my mum and a friend says he does casue he looks at me all the time and talks 2 me please help.
I love him !!!

Carrie