I met him during summer vacation and when I first saw him I wasn't really interested in him.
I liked his friend more, yet I always noticed the way he kept looking at me from time to time. As the days went by, I realized that his friend is really lame and childish and then one day we sat together and we talked a lot about many things, we played cards and laughed like hell. I thought he was great and funny and mature. I liked him a lot. That night we went to the beach with all of our friends, we stayed till the sunrise and I knew from his friends that he's heading back to Cairo. I was devastated. I wanted to spend more time with him and know him more. Anyways, after sometime I noticed he was walking towards his car and that he kept looking at me as if he wanted to say something, but he still left with no word or even a goodbye.
Ever since, I can't shake the thought of him out of my mind.
I think about him all the time and I miss him so much. It's not possible that we meet again any time soon. I can only hope we'll meet in next year's vacation.
What can I do?? I know one of his friends and I could ask for his number, but I'm a bit shy to make such a move.
What should I do??
Yoshka
Answer:
Summer vacations are usually the setting for quick friendships and short term love affairs!
After summer, each person goes back to their usual life and everyday routine, which means putting vacation behind their backs and going forward in their life.
Maybe you've taken things a bit too serious! He was a guy you met and that's that!
But ... you may want to see beyond that, you could be bold and get his number and call him. You'll either give him a happy surprise or you'll be pushing too hard!
The chances are you'll either find out that:
1. He's been thinking about you too.
2. He's surprised that you got his number.
3. He'll be annoyed! That's a possibility!
You either categorize his as an acquaintance that you might meet again or take your chances and call him! I can't tell you what to do, but i can paint you a picture!
Good Luck!
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Hi!
These past 2 years have been very difficult to me. I am 27 years old guy. back then i was working, nothing really going on except for the work and having fun. there was an emptiness inside me that time, i reallly needed a relationship. Then came along a girl, who happened to be from my previous college but we really didnt noticed each other before. I thought i would give her a call, i called her; we got along talking on the phone. We would talk endlessly. It was me who would be calling everytime. She was preparing for the USMLE ( she is doctor and i am engineer). we talked and talked about everything and one day she told me that she was engaged,it was hard for me as I was beginning to fell in love with her. I was so into her by that time..
We decided to met. what happened was we were meeting more often. and the day came of her marriage. I couldnt stop her, coz from the place where I am from u wouldnt cross ur parents; and her marriage was set by her parents, hers was a arranged marriage. I am deeply in love her. From those days till now I am in love with her. I just cant get off my mind.
After marriage she went to US with her husband, but I was still in love. I tried and tried to get her off but I couldnt. I couldnt stand days back home with she being in US. So came to US too hoping to see some day, hug her around my arms.
Now by this time its been a year shes been married. And I am just scared that her love for me would deplete. I may sound pervert or sick or anything... I am a scorpion.... its hard for me to forget people
I want to forget her, let her live own life..... bt its hard for me to let go the love of my life.... Some body please help me I want to feel good, remove jealosy and agony off my chest. i dont know where my life is going. I am out my control.
Please help me... for heavens sake