My boyfriend and i have been together for a few months. I met him in college, he was my classmate. at the time we met, i already had a BF but our relationship was on the break.
Now we're together, but he's soon going to leave and go back home because he's finished his studies!
I'll also finish in January, which means we'll surely go our separate ways!
I feel so sad ... this is the end! I won't be able to meet him again.
He told me to take it easy and just let things be. Easier said than done!
How can i let it all go so easily? I love him!
Nella
Answer:
Nella, if you both are aware that there's no way of finding a solution, then it's a lost case!
You'll have to go through a rough period and just let things be.
But! If you and him can come to some kind of solution that will allow both of you to continue your relationship and keep on meeting, then that's great!
You don't have to be confused. It's either one or the other!
Good Luck!
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dear nella,
u cant find love everyday..u should be strong and figure out what u want..i think u should tell him that u love him because if u didnt u'll regret it your whole life..
heyy nella ur situation is hard i know.
bcuz ive been in the same exact situation.
i know at the end of the day u love him and he loves u.
but u have 2 realize that long distant relationships r very hard 2 maintain. and in the end ur either ur gonna get sick of it and leave him or he will leave u. and it seems like hes not really sad about leavin hes just like let things be? yeaa it really loox like he wants the relationship 2 continue. i mean thats just my oppinion 4rom experience bcuz i got hurt. and really i hope u find the right solution to ur problem. =)