I love my classmate to death and i have a feeling that he loves me too.
I always spot him looking at me and smiling in a lovely way, but he haven't told me yet if he loves me or not. I'm sure he knows that i love him.
What can i do to have him and to be with him? Because of our culture i cant tell him directly that i love him, but he is always on my mind.
What should i do to have love relation with him???
yasna
Answer:
Dear Yasna,
You don't have to do anything to be with this guy.
Just be yourself, hang out with him when there's a chance and things will come naturally.
Don't concentrate on wanting to be in a love relationship with him, just take it slow and be friends with him. If there's a future for the both of you, love will come on the way and it will bloom without having to put too much of an effort.
Take things easy and enjoy your time with him. Don't worry too much about 'love'.
comments
I totaly agree with waleg`s answer!
just be yourself and if he does love you, he will accept you for who you are.
this may help you later on, DO NOT change for a guy.
i think we have the same culture that you cant tell the guy that you love him.
so just wait until he tells you that he loves you if he really does.
he loves u a lot...but wont tell u becoz he dont want 2 hurt ur feelings...after a long time u will go to england...wont see him 4 long...suddenly he finds u in ORKUT...but u wont feel the love which u had...u ignores him...he feels pain...but u wont feel the pain which he feels...as he has been thinking of u every day ...as before....u will hav a lot of friends...u will never need his love...but he will continue 2 love u...till the end...but u will say it as "school age craziness" and "stupid things"...THIS IS WHAT HAS HAPPENED TO ME ...AND IS STILL CONTINUING...y i tell u this is becoz its a PAINFUL situation and its hard to go thru it...and i dont want him 2 be put to the same pain...TRY TO BE GOOD TO HIM...JUST SMILE AT HIM...LOVE WILL GROW ON ITS OWN..plizzzz
ilove a guy he is really great person and nice
but ihave two problem i don't know that he loves me and he is christian and iam muslim so wat can ido to be with him?
okay i know how you feel. i love someone he is my race. and everything. but you see i met mhims online and he is the sweetest person. and i seen his face. and i talked to him on the phone but i know my parents dont want me woith him because he is egyptian and i am palestinian. only my parents want me to be twith someone from palestine
maybe you should just get a freiend or someone to ask him out for you ?