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Why Does He Lead Me On?

By H.A.R. on May 10, 2008

I've been talking with this guy that i met online on and off now for about a few years.
He's been trying to get me to meet him, but I've been hesitant about it because of insecurities. Well, we just started talking again and he tells me that he wants to get married and have children with me and that he's ready to get our relationship started. I'm ready to
see him now, but it worries me because he doesn't really call me. I'm the one who has to contact him!
I've confronted him about the situation and he apologizes but never seems to do what he says he's going to do. Why does he tell me that he likes me and cares about me and then ignores me? Why lead me on? Should i forget about him and move on?

Chandra

Answer:

Dear Chandra,

It doesn't sound to me like a thing that's going to work!
Usually Internet relationships are a flop! Only in some very rare cases do they work, and only after the two meet face to face and spend some time together, to get to know each other in person.
You said it yourself: he doesn't contact you, he doesn't do what he says he'll do and you're hesitant! If you're not 100% sure, then don't! As long as you're hesitant, then it's not going to work.
Be tough and let him go. You'll find Mr. Right when the time is right.
Good Luck!

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  1. D

    D

    May 11, 2008

    OMG this happened with me too, he kept saying the same things that he cares n wanna get married n i wasnt sure we shud meet yet , then he stopped calling then came back n this happened more that once now he's gone. men r jerks.

  1. MISO SAMA

    MISO SAMA

    May 24, 2008

    i hate guys like this, even with the purest intentions it still abuses the girls weakness, well i dont know about you but i dont think u should believe promises from some1 no matter who in normal cases nvr the less on the internet, just have faith in ur self and believe that u deserve better

  1. miso sama

    miso sama

    May 24, 2008

    i hate guys like this, even with the purest intentions it still abuses the girls weakness, well i dont know about you but i dont think u should believe promises from some1 no matter who in normal cases nvr the less on the internet, just have faith in ur self and believe that u deserve better

  1. Mia

    Mia

    Jun 20, 2008

    I think you should simply let it go..
    I dont believe that the internet relationships could work out.. You never even met him and he says he wants 2 marry u & have kids that honestly freaks me out..
    No matter who he is or what his intentions are I think you should cut any contact with him..And I believe u do deserve a better guy.. You just need 2 w8!
    Wish You Best Of Luck & Take Care! =)
    xx!

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