I'm in love with a guy, who is currently studying abroad. We were together for 1 year then we broke up. -that was 7 months ago-
Although i contacted him again and told him exactly how i feel about him and that i've missed him alot, he has a girlfriend now.
I want to get back together with him and i want to marry him!
Our relationship was great, it was fun, we loved each other, we used to see each other and hang out together 6 days a week!
He'll be back in December and i don't know what i should do to get him back!
I'm not sure, does he still love me or has he gotten over me!
He's the one I've been looking for ... i don't want to let him go!
By Victoria
Answer:
Dear Victoria,
You're stuck in the past! Get over the guy! He has a new girlfriend and that should mean something to you!
What makes things worse is that you're not sure about anything! But the guy told you that he doesn't have any more feelings for you .. believe him and get on with your life!
Find a new guy ... there must be a load of guys that would love to hang out with you.
If you let something go, you cannot change your mind and want it back and end of problem!
Things in life don't always go as you wish ... you know that, no?
So, move on ... start over and let the past be the past!
Good Luck.
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Moving on can be a difficulity but that's soemthing you have to do if you want to move on with your life. He already has a new girlfriend and that means he is all over you. You either wake up and face it and move on or stay stuck in your past. You should move on because I bet there are plenty of guys who will like you even more than he did. It doesn't matter how much you miss him he is a memory you should cheerish and keep, but it has been 7 months and I think you should make new memories with someone else. It's not worth it to think of marriage with him because he is not what you want and need, it's just an illusion you made. My best advice move on!!
well, what can i say to u. y did u leave him n the first place, i mean after u left him u accept him to cme bk to u, im sure he has a heart like u so y should he cme bk to u after what u did to him i think thats wrong im not being funney or anything but seriously, move on he has another girl and im sure if he wasnt happy with her and he was happy with u then he wouldnt of been with her right now but ofcourse he found something in her better, so theres no way he will cme bk to u seriosuly i knw guys very well!!
take my adivce leave him and stop thinking about him u left him he is not a game so u can play with him every time u feel like it sweety!!
bibi
girl we are in the exact same boat. as i read i thought of me!!!!!
The best think that u have to do it's to forgot him cause he now is with another girl and i don't know if he love her but he is with her not with u and if he love u he will come back to u early or later
this is what i think
i was with a dude for 9 months on and off, he left his girl for me...and he would tell me he loved me and he wanted to spend the rest of his life with me...but he lives 11 hours away (in driving) we recently broke up, and he got back together with his ex...and he says he loves her so much and that he cant be with me anymore...i didnt talk to him for 6 days no contact or anything and he texted me last night saying 'so ur not gonna talk to me anymore' ...im just confused...what should i do to get him to leave her? will he leave her for me? does he still love me or care about me? or is it because of the distance hes acting this way?
i think that u have 2 get his MSN or facebook and send him msges that can could remembe ur love story again or tell him facely that u cant live without him anymore and he still in ur life and u cant get him out ever.
byee!!!
Well,my friend I advise you to forget him and if you really love him wish for him a goods life and God will send to you a man who will care about you be suuuure
ok, so i was going out with this guy for 3 months. I know wow i sound crazy, but during those months i had the best life ever. I personally dont beleave in love at first sight, but i can honestly say i loved him. Well when we were going out he started talking to this other girl, and in the long run he couldnt decide who he liked more. So me being stupid, dumped him. Then the next day he says he misses me and wants a second chance, so i give it to him becuse i couldnt imagine life with out him. Then we got to talking and he decided he doesnt know if he wants a releationship or not. I understood that, i reliezed we where young and we shouldnt be tied down to a releationship. So a few more days later he says he wants a releationship with me. I was very excited, i mean we could finally get back to the way we where. Wait not yet, so he wasnt talking to me and he always seemed very akward to me, so i was like what am i to you? And of course to my disappointment he said he doesnt know. I told him that i wanted to be with someone who wants me and knows he wants me, so i ended it again. So now we have been broken up for about a month. We are still friends, we still say hi and have how are you conversations when we see each other. I reliezed i made the worst decision of my life, when not one second of my day goes by when i dont think about him. And everyone keeps telling me he still cares about me. So now my question for you would be, is there a possability that we could get back together, if so please help me. I tried the whole moving on thing but it doesnt work when you don't want to. So right now i need some advice with what i should do. Please help....