What if I was in love with a boy that my friend use to be in love with and go with, what should I do?
By Chelsea
Answer:
It is quite a delimma you seem to be in. Even if your friend is no longer in love with this boy, she is bound to be resentful.
My initial advise to you is just forget about it, usually these relationships at your age do not last very long anyway. Loyalty in friendship is much more important.
You did not say if these felings are actually reciprocated? If so do not make a hasty decision, and wait a few weeks to make certain of your feelings towards this guy.
If you believe your feelings are quite strong and do not seem to have diminished, I advise you to sit down and have a talk about it with your friend. If she does mind, she will tell you so. It is the respectable thing to do, and you will feel much better for it.
In life we have lots of decisions to make, and sometimes we don't know if the decision was the wisest until later.
One question I will be asking you before you take your decision: How valuable is this particular friendship to you?
Sil
comments
aaaahhhhh i know its sad dont worry darling :( u'll find a better guy than him
hey hunneyyy yea u willll find a betterrrr guy sweety 3an jad u willl.and forget about emmmm.
i was in the same situation for the last 9 years. i tried everything to forget her but I couldnt.
you loves him because he is not with u.
If he is with you. you will not love him like now.
Always think that if u get ur beloved one day THEN..... i think that day u will not feel as u are feeling now. he will not be the most precious thing for you. at that time something else will be precious for u and u will be dying to get that new precious thing.
I mean to say that if we acheive something then we dont give any importance to that.
Then why to try so hard for the person that will not be precious for you at last.
So keep thinking like this for some time it will definitly benefit u.