I've been with enough people to know what i want, then i met this one girl, we kicked it off you know she would try to get my attention, tell me things she told no one else etc... so i asked her out and she said yes and it seemed as if it was all good, but then she tells me not to like her and such bit i know that she is the one that I've been looking for all my life, i don't want to let her go, so any help?

Don

Answer

Dear Don,

You should inquire from her as to why she thinks you should stop loving her. Does she love you? or has she discovered that her feelings for you are only the feelings of friendship only? If yes, then you should let her go because she probably saw you as confidant to share her problems and joy with.

Talk to her my dear, try to understand her concerns and feelings without pressuring her, and if that does not work then I think you should let her go my dear, and that means have no contact. That will help both of you understand your feelings more, and if you are meant to be together, so be it.
We cannot always have what we are looking for in life, and time is sure to heal our wounds and help us forget.
Good luck though I am sure you will find another person that would be ideal for you and will share your feelings with.