Hi i'm 16 and i am in love with a girl also 16, this is not the first time, but this time my feelings are stronger then i ever felt before.
I want to be with her but she lives in England and I live in Norway and she doesn't know i even exist. I know that i'm never going to be with her so my question is how can i stop being in love?
Ken
Answer:
Dear Ken,
As much as humans love to and tried over the years, we cannot switch our feelings on and off:) Do I understand from your message that you met online? If so my dear why do you think you will never be together? have you described your feelings to her, and she rejected you?
If you have not told her how you feel then you should. We always let our insecurities overcome our needs and wants so that we can end up missing out on a very good thing.
If so my dear, you cannot stop being in love but I guarantee you will forget her in due time.
My obvious advice to you is to let time help you forget and do not take it too seriously because believe me you will fall in love again.
You sound like a very sweet young man, which I am sure will make a very lucky "available" girl a perfect and loving boyfriend.
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hey i'm 15 and i am in love witha girl that is 14. we have been going out now for 6 months, but have been on and off for about 1 and a half. we have been through a lot together. but her friends are telling her that i am cheating on her and dat she shouldnt trust me. i'm just scared that she might break up with me and me feeling the way i do about her. i have never felt this way about anyone before and i never thought i could feel this way. she sais she feels the same way about me too, i dont know what to do!..
you cant stop loving someone its not questionabl either you always love them like you say you will or you never did...
i just got broke up with after two yesras and i still have the strongesty feelings for my ex... you cant just stop loving someone even if you can t be with them just be honset its amazing what you can find out!@
hey ,,you know what i got the same problem..i even felt in love with a girl that doesnt love me but ,,its been three years,but the only thing i can do is thinkin about her,,and the only solution you have is continue thinkin about her coz if it is a true love you cant get rid of it........sorry
Hiya, just reading comments there.
I am 21 and I have been mad about this one guy for 5years now. Its crazy! We met in our local pub but at the time I was going out with someone else n never even noticed when he was chatting me up then when I broke up with my ex, I couldnt stop thinkin bout him. since then we have kissed on numerous occasions(thats all), always have a laugh with other and now work together. He told me once about 3yrs ago that he was mad about me and thinks im the most beautiful woman hes ever met but he doesnt want to go out with anyone unless he deeply in love and respects me too much to go any further!!I got over him at the time but recently becus I work with him, I honestly think im so in love with this person now than ever b4. hes not the relationship type but the way he looks at me, i just know he must feel something. or am I just fooling myself??? theres so much more too it but this is cutting a long story short! HELP B4 I GO INSANE!
listen u gotta find urself another girl and u ll forget her
hey well i can tell you i am 17 and i have been there done that if you have strong feelings for that guy or girl then its all ways going to be there no matter what you not going to able to stop loving them you just have to chill and take it one day at a time