A guy liked me for a long time and was aggravating me everyday telling me I was fine and he wanted to go with me, but I never ever liked him, so I got tired of him messing with me, so I went with him for about three weeks and I started liking him more and more but he doesn’t act the same like he use to be crazy over me but now its like he doesn’t really care, so what should I do? Should we stop talking, or stay together? What should I do, please help me!
Answer:
Dear Angel
Ever hear the proverb: “Why feed a fish when you’ve caught it?” I think you’re living this case right now. If the guy was acting all crazy about you, he shouldn’t stop just because you’re together. If anything, he should be even MORE crazy about you! I don’t want to slam the guy too hard. Maybe he just had a change of heart. These things happen. People’s feelings change, just like yours did, right? If I were you, I wouldn’t give it much thought. Just make him realize what he might miss if you were apart. Maybe you just need to jumpstart his memory a bit.
Good Luck.
By Zayed
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how come not to give him much thought while she is in love with him .. it wld be difficult!
Well some guys when they are comfortable in the relationship, cease to put in much effort. That does not mean that his feeling have changed.
It could also be that he is shying away from the intensity of the relationship, trying to put some emotional distance between the two of you and risking isolating you.
It could be too that he did not find what he expected so he is putting zero effort so that you dump because men are usually very cowardly about intiating breakups.
Just talk to him. The biggest mistake in a relationship is letting problems and insecurities fester until they lead to its failure.
i think that you should talk to him, and she what's happening. YOu don't want to set their and just do nothing, letting days go by that's just is a waste of time. Let him know how you feel truth is always the right path to take, no matter how much it hurts..
I don't know what to do for the past few months I have had the perfect guy who would do anything for me and showed me every day in everyway...then I got scared and tried to push him out of my life. Before I had the chance to tell him what he meant to me and that I was completely in love with him he stopped returning texts and phone calls and will only see me if I come to his house. I am 31 years old, the mother of three children and can honestly say I have never felt a love like this or this strong. I need him but need him to be the way he was. How do I do this? How do I get him back and make him realize that I won't run again? I know he is hurt and scared but his mixed signals of only wanting to be with me during the night is starting to make me feel used and that isn't where I want this to go or how I want to feel. HELP ME PLEASE!!!!!!!