For a while now… I've liked one of my very good friends, I've told him and I do have another friend (a female), whose brother is good friends with the one I like. She always tells me that he says nice things all the time, and always wants me to come around and be with them… for instance, last weekend, we all went to some party, but as I was getting directions, on the phone with her, he was in the background, telling her to tell me that he wants me to go, and then when it comes to school, he still does come around me, and gives me hugs quite a bit… but its just all so confusing because I am scared to talk to him about my true feelings.

And I don’t want anybody to have to do it for me… I need help, at least maybe, some advice, if possible... I’m scared in the end I’m gonna end up hurt because he might not see me like I see him.

Answer:

Dear Crystal

This is not an easy situation that you’re in. But at the same time, its not that hard to solve.
The most important thing is that you know you like him. So question yourself first: “Do I really like this guy that much or is it just a crush?”
If YES is your answer, then read on…

Boys are hard to predict simply because they don’t know what they want themselves. This is where you come in. Don’t openly say to him “I like you” or anything like that. You must direct his attention to you. You must attract him to you in some way. Let him chase and follow you. Then, after he sees you and knows your special, you could say…how about a movie.
And if you’re afraid of getting hurt, don’t be.

There will be a billion other guys banging your door down to get to you!
Just keep in mind that you’re beautiful, you’re special and he’d better notice you or he’s the only looser!
Good Luck!

Zayed