I use to live in New York I fell in love with this guy named Jeremy and we always argued about a lot of things. We had an on an off relationship but no matter what, we keep running back to each other but then I moved to Florida and continued dating him until I broke up with him only because I don’t want to have a distance relationship. I want to be with him but now I’m dying inside!
It’s been 5 months since we've been apart and I want him back but I don’t know how it’s going to work out. What should I do to try to get him back? It seems like he hates me for what I've done with us but I don’t know if it’s just that he's recovering or he really does hate me. I need some help!

By Beatrice Diaz

Answer:

Dear Beatrice,

No one likes a distant relationship… no one likes to be hurt. I do admire your willingness to try to resolve your problem but my advice is to move on! Yes, I’m sorry but I think you did the right thing at the beginning when you decided you didn’t want this long-distant relationship. It’s hard to let go. Actually, I think it’s the most difficult of all things to do, but congratulations, you’ve made a good step. You’re young and will meet truck-loads of new guys. It’s a waste to live your life without love. Jeremy would understand as I’m sure he would want to do the same thing too. And when you loved someone, even if they’re not with you anymore, you can never hate them. So don’t worry, he doesn’t hate you that’s for sure! That’s one thing!

The other thing is the pain you have to deal with. The only reason you’re feeling so bad is because you felt true love with every inch of your soul. This means you’re a loving and caring person who should be happy. I mean it!
When you feel bad remembering Jeremy, try and focus on the future… don’t look behind. 5 months have already passed; they could have been 5 months of new love! You can never advance by looking back. Trust me!
After you read this…go out there and find a new love!

Good luck!