What's Going on in my Life! [9]

By H.A.R. on Aug 12, 2006

Lately our relationship is nothing. We don't talk, we don't fight & we don't spend anytime together.
If he doesn't sign up for school, I am going to ask him to leave, he knows this, but I am getting really scared of what I will do if he leaves. How will I take care of my family properly?

I love my husband and I want to spend the rest of my life with him, but we can't go on like this, if it is mental and he needs help, how do I get it when he doesn't want it?

Sometimes I wish I could die, but then I would be hurting my kids, family & friends.
What I want is for him to change and us work together towards getting out of this mess and if he needs help, getting it. Of course, winning a million dollars would help too, but that isn't going to happen.

By Chandra

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  1. natalie


    Aug 13, 2006

    im sorry to tell u that all ur problems r ur fault. u should have put ur foot down a long time ago. there is nothing i can do to help u, but i do sympathise with ur plight. sorry.

  1. S.M.S.


    Aug 13, 2006

    I hope you are only using this site to release some of your angst by telling your story, because if you are looking for real help you will not find it here. If advice is given, it will be confusing and does more harm than good. A marriage counsellor might help, and if you feel you are way past it leave him. The problem you claim is that he is not responsible enough and cannot be relied upon, so leaving him will leave you in the same situation.Are you are one of these women that need a man in their lives?. You said that you keep getting help from your family, so if they would help, leave and try and get a job youself. You can pursue child support through legal arenas and a stable environment is best for your kids instead of the confusion and instability that his prescence seem to provoke. However I would exhaust the marriage counselling option first.

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