Even his parents won't put up with him any more. I've dealt with his antics for over 20 years, but after this last episode our relationship got so bad he left for a while and moved in with his mom and dad and after about 3 months they said enough was enough too.

When I was pregnant with our 8 year old daughter, Brooky, is when the real trouble started that has brought us to the present. He was working for the state of Ohio, it wasn't a high paying job, but we had excellent retirement and health care benefits, and with time he could have moved up especially if he had went to school and updated his skills. He wanted a better job, but sssentially he didn't want to work a long time for it or go to school, so the job hopping began.

In the next 8 years I don't have time to tell you how many jobs he has had or how many times we were out of a job or moved. The last good job he had was 2 years ago for the State of Michigan. He was a Computer Programming Contractor and made a lot of money, but he had to pay his own taxes and we had no benefits and the job was only temporary.

The kids and I tried to move there with him but it fell through which is another story in it's self, but our agreement when we parted was he would commute from Michigan to Ohio which was about a 3 hour drive. He would leave on Friday after work and come home then go back on Sunday evenings.

... to be continued

By chandra

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