So at this point in time he got laid off 2 years ago May 20th, he hasn't been able to find a job in his field since, so he finally after about a year of hardship and many fights and counseling he started getting odd jobs that He quits. He has tried to keep up his expensive habits even though we were On food stamps, Financial Aid, and Medicaid. And, he refuses to go to School even though by now he could have his degree.

When I was 25 I was a Cosmetologist and I was tired of working evenings, Weekends, and Holidays. At that time my husband was in the Air Force. He had dropped out of college 2 times before we got married, so he enlisted in The Air Force instead. He was 9 to 5 no evenings, weekends, or holidays most of the time, so I decided to go back to school and be a secretary.

We had been married about 5 years and friends and family wondered when we were going to have children. Up until then we had been free spirits traveling, partying with friends, etc. So we decided in the next couple of years after I finished school and worked for a while we would start having kids.

Many family and friends said that because I had been on birth control pills for so long I would have trouble getting pregnant so I should stop using it about a year before I tried to get pregnant. I got pregnant the first time we made a mistake and didn't use contraceptives.

... to be continued

By chandra

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