Mark is double-minded. The principle "treat other people how you want to be treated" is "I'll treat you as I want to treat you and you treat me as I want to be treated" He doesn't treat other people with respect, but he has very specific ideas about how he is suppose to be respectfully treated".
I also think he suffers from ADHD, he has been sort of diagnosed with this disorder, but he doesn't agree with the doctors about his treatment, hence, he doesn't go or take his medicine properly. Our son was diagnosed with ADHD and Tourettes and ADHD is usually inherited from a parent.
We can safely assume that you mean by your post is that you are not happy with your husband and that he does not seem to possess many if any endearing qualities. Looking forward to the rest though I cannot believe that you can find more faults in one human being (well I can).