I have known my love for over five years now. We dated for two great years. The last three years we have seen each other, and always stayed in touch. Distance is a problem. I have told her many times that I'm waiting for her, she is still all about going out and partying. I feel like she is never going to get past that. I love her. Is it possible to change? Should she? And should I be worried she only hangs out with guys?

Andy

Dear Andy,

Five years isn't a short time, it should have made you two grow on each other.
When you say the distance is a problem, I assume that you are not living I the same city, right?
Well, usually distance relationships don't really last, but in your case I don't think that's a problem because you already have been together for five years.
As for the partying, I think that being in the early 20's is all about partying! "I guess you know that".
But don't worry, when the time comes for settling down, she will cut down on the partying for sure.
And I suggest that you try to party with her sometimes, go out with her & show interest.
As for hanging out with guys, well, some girls are like that, but if you are sure of her love for you & you trust her, then you shouldn't worry about that at all.
I hope things will be fine between you two, Good Luck.