I am a married person, we got married 4 years ago and we have a daughter, I have problems with my wife but I feel she loves me. Anyhow I have fallen in love with someone else! The problem is that she doesn't know that I like her, I told her that I like her so much but I felt she doesn't care. We chat everyday on MSN messenger. I need someone to help me on this. I must attract her.
Simon
Dear Simon,
I think you have a big problem with your attitude towards your sacred relationship with your wife!
You must make an effort to attract you wife & not the other woman! You have to do all your best in making the relationship of -Marriage- work!
4 years isn't a long time & there is a daughter involved as well.
Think well, consult your conscience & have a talk with your wife; tell her what is bothering you, explain that you want to make your relationship with her stronger & take things step by step with your wife!
Forget about that other woman, because any other thing will be a step in the wrong direction!
why do you fell that you need to attract her, she maybe not into you. She doesn't feel the same way for you as you do for her. SO why keep this affair up. IF you still love your wife stop talking to the other woman. If you don't love your wife then divorce her. Marriage doesn't work without love or trust. And don't let your wife and daughter live a life of missery. So think and chose carefully. It's a big dission. ""I am sorry but in my opionion and if i was in your place i would stop talking to the other woman and stay with my family""" if i loved them and maybe your love of your wife will start again,,
Look, I am not being judgmental, but we really have to take a hard look at ourselves and ask, why do we do things in life?... Why did u marry your wife? U have to remember all of the reasons u married her- because those reasons are all STILL there- and now u have an extra BIG reason... your daughter.
This other woman is clearly smart and doesnt want to get involved with a man who is not free. If you really care about her, u will think about her and leave her alone to pursue a relationship with someone who IS FREE and can give her all the time she deserves.
I mean, u will be sinning and u will make her sin!
I also think that what goes around comes around. If you do it to your wife, someone is likely to do it back to u.
Sometimes dreams need to be kept just that.... dreams!
You are a loser. I swear your wife is too good for you(and I do not even know her). What exactly are you asking people to help you with?. Boohoo for you mate. OOH I am a so miserable, I have a wife that loves me, I have a little daughter, but I am attracted to this person who is not aware of my feelings. Oh Thy bleeding heart. Why did not throw the "my wife does not understand me" to make people feel sorry for you?I think you are a selfish, immature little boy who goes after his whims with no regards to the feelings of others or the consequences of his actions. Grow up buddy, marriage is not a game and you should not go for any toy that pleases you.
I am trying to be as nice as possible.
Look at your daughter and think what is best for that girl. You have decided your fate when you went ahead with your marriage and you brought a child into this world.
I can not believe you would be prepared to sacrifice your marriage that could last only for a week.
Wake up little man before you are left with only your keyboard to keep you warm at night.
I meant sacrifice your marriage for an attraction that could last only for a week.