I have been in love since Feb16,2005. And it feels so good to know that i have someone who loves me the same way i love him. But we haven't seen each other in 2 months, but we still are together, yet i really don't know if he loves me really or not. He tells me he loves me everyday. I really don't know how
to tell if he really loves me. And he never cheated on me and always tells me the truth.
We plan on having a baby together but i really don't know what to do?
Courtney
Dear Courtney,
If he tells you he loves you, and has never cheated on you, and is still with you despite you haven't seen him in 2 months, then it means he loves you!
As for the baby, well, i ave to tell you, it is strange that you say that you plan to have a baby with him, while you are doubting his love for you! And you are still too young to be having a baby!
Just take it easy, enjoy your time with your boyfriend, and drop the plans for the baby at the moment!
Trust me, this is for the best.
Good Luck
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Okay at first I read your post and I thought it is obvious is it not that you are not ready to have a baby together?. However that would prove my friend saying that I lack patience and I am too judgemental as well as too opinionated to be studying psychology ( wow I just made that about me as well). So I will try to be understanding and say that you have known each other for a very short period, it is obvious that you have not built enough trust between you two. I do not know enough about you, however it is apparent that you seem to lack some selfesteem. You say that he never cheated or lied to you, as well as telling you he loves you everyday , but you still do not believe him!!. Work on yourself and then think about having a baby. Babies are not toys, and do not think that the baby will bring you closer, it could have the opposite effect.
I believe you should ask a friend or a family member who would know more about your situation, rather than seek help here.