I have been with my boyfriend for 6 months but recently he's been going to work until late at night and we barely get to talk & see each other, and now i have been getting to know another guy and i like him. I still love my boyfriend, its just that i want a boyfriend that doesn't work all the time and will spend
time with me. I really don't know what to do, should i keep seeing my boyfriend, or should i give this other guy a chance?
What should i do?
Tiff
Dear Tiff,
You can't break-up with your boyfriend because he works late!
You have to find a time that works for both of you, in order to spend time together & talk.
If you love him, you will have to give him a chance.
Talk to him, and tell him that you miss him, and that you would like to agree on a time for both of you to be free, to spend some quality time together.
As for the other guy, if he is nice, just be friends with him, that doesn't hurt!
Good Luck
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hi!
it's really sad,cause nowadays it's so hard to find someone that y love and he love y too!
to be honest it's not good what y think to do, make your self at his place,if y work by night,would he get an other gf,and if he do work,it's for whom; i think it's to made money for him and y too, to live a good life!
dont change the guy y love
y dont know if the other one is honest
it's my point of view
Dear Tiff,
It's only fair that you confront your boyfriend with your feelings about not being able to spend time with each other.
Based on his reaction, you will be able to decide whether to stay together or not.
Good luck!
tiff,
honey i dont think you should turn to someone else. it was wrong of u to do to begin with. i think u need to confront your b/f. good luck to you guys.
Hi Tiff,
they say expirience is the best teacher.I don't mean to sound rude but the truth is the best.You are one of those lucky women .There is love and fun.There are a couple of things you need to ask/know first.Your boyfriend isn't cheating on you IM I right? He is just that hard or over-working man as you claimed.Also you rightly said,you guys plan on having a baby OMG which is wonderful,don't you think he is in one way or the other trying to make you and your baby a have most of what you want/need.Look I don't think he's doing something wrong and that's fact.The foundation of a family is hard to build.A good foundation in everything most often than not results to best effects beleive me or not.Instead you are acting too self centered and irresponsible because he goes out to WORK not to catch fun.Based on what you just said you might be a self centered and/or impatient lover which is NOT correct.To be good you need to know what is bad of you.If you are a hot woman and want the other (I call it the temptation...)Ohh that's on you.I just think you need to know what your possition is.Ask yourself IM I A RESPONSIBLE WOMAN?Or Do I want to be one? Or IM I that FEMALE WHO JUST WANTS FUN.There is a difference being female and being a Woman.Funny righ? But true.Our society correct attention(Moral wise) is diverted but the truth stays steady,Any reasonable or responsible WOMAN woun't think this way.I could sound wrong as you might think but right in atleast 88% trust me.But hold on...except you didn't say all the facts like you re suspecting him of cheating on you or something related...or I guess you down looking your present BoyFriend.In any case even if he's not cute and all that's not the best way,you are wrong from the number 0.If you ever met a self confident and reserved MAN then you will not even think of.BUT if you think your happiness isn't by his side and you know that from the depts of your heart then you should better tell him you don't feel him that much,NOT saying that he is a hard working man.IM a Psychology student of University of North Alabama.my email is attached to the mail.Feel free to contact.All I know is many people realise the real importance of the others when they re no longer together.Don't act and reason Tiff.Reason and Act.Love it or hate it,it is the truth.God Bless and help you.