I love someone deeply, & i lost many things for his sake, but he broke my heart so deeply when he traveled to Germany & married another girl. Since then i couldn't have a real relation with any one, i am so confused, i only search for friends to share feelings with.

tantona

Dear tantona,

What has happened must have hurt you deeply, but that doesn't mean that all relationships will end badly, or that all men will break your heart.
You should move on, try to forget, enjoy the company of men, and get to know some closely.
If you find someone that seems nice, then try to build some sort of relationship with him, and see where that takes you.
Just remember, that not all men are back-stabbers, and that you should enjoy your life and have fun, because you are still young, and life is ahead of you.