There's this guy that i have known for 5 years and we've been together before but it was just puppy love and fooling around and now we're best friends but i have a boyfriend that i have been with for 9 months and I'm having second thoughts about him! I'm not sure if i love him anymore, but i know i love my friend. We all call him Bob. But he's with this girlfriend and she's pregnant with her ex boyfriend's baby, and Bob knows that, and he's been seeing other girls behind her back including me!
We've done "things" together! and I'm not sure if i should try and get with Bob or should i stay with my current boyfriend?
Help!
*MiSsA*
Dear *MiSsA*:
You are in a messy situation, and things are too complicated for you to take a quick step!
I think you should try and figure things out slowly; Have you stopped loving your boyfriend? Do you really love Bob? What about his pregnant girlfriend? And what does Bob really feel for you?
You have to think things through, and decide what the best thing is for all ...
If you think talking things through with Bob would help, then go for it, and maybe two minds can solve the problem better than one!
Good Luck

comments
Ok you are an idiot
yeah she is an idiot
Gee, thats Messy!! :S
Girl....Bob is messing behind his gal back wid u n oTHER chicks...shows watta guy he is!!
Just like a fig, puppy love can be so soft and sweet.
Just stay as far away from bob as you can and focus on urself. if ur current bf is not who u want, look for someone who is. but forget about bob coz he's nothing but bad news..
like duuhh can u c??? he's just playing??(bob) do u like bein played?? how would u think ur bf will feel when he figure out ?? think well and decide what u want at least dont full ur current bf too i dnt think he desrves...