I want to ask a question on how to deal with a mysterious guy! I don't know whether i like this guy or not, because I'm not sure!
This guy is unpredictable but quite most of the time! He always stares at me every time i talk with my friends or am having fun! But then when i look at him, he just looks away! So i want to make sure what to do ... What should i do ?
dona
Dear dona,
It is obvious that to clear the whole situation out, you have to go up to the guy, and ask him straight out : Why were you staring at me ?
Be nice but serious, and see if he answers you or not!
That way you will clear up the confusion and will be sure what to do.

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this guy obviously likes u but is too afraid to show it. maybe he's intimidated because hes shy? whatever the case may be...maybe u shud just talk to him. make the first move. u dont necessarily have to talk to him about why he was staring at u but just talk normal conversation. maybe hes interested in u but is too shy to say anything.
Hey I have a question. First of all I like this girl that I go to church with. I have liked her for about five years now. I tried talking to her when I was about 16 or 17 and nothing came of it so I "moved on" in other words I tried to get over her. Now me and her are talking as in friends. She walks up to me and talks to me more now...she nudges me and makes faces at me. I know it may not be much but for what it is worth I seem to be the only guy that she is like this around. The other guys that has tried talking to her dont experience the same response. She is real quiet around them and very withdrawn. With me she is herself. How can I be more mysterious or if I should be. And what tips do you have for me?
Ok well.......I'd kind of like to be a little mysterious when I'm around guys because I'd like to keep them guessing I don't why but it just would be fun to see them try to figure me out... But the problem is, is that I'm not at all mysterious!! So if you have any advice on how to be more mysterious plese type away!!!!
well i also agree that when he stares at u go ahead and ask me kidnly and seriously but if u like him dont be so hiper that he might say he likes just be normal so u wont get a shock goodluck hope it'll be possitive byezz