I No Longer See Him As A Brother

Dec 28, 2005 → By H.A.R. → Filed Under: Q & A 5

I am in love with my cousins brother who is 6 years older than me. I know him since my childhood and he is also my neighbor. He also loves me so much. I used to call him "brother" when we were young, but now i stopped. The problem is we want to get married and share our life, we cannot live without each other.
As i used to call him brother, people think that it is so. We cannot marry in front of our parents because they know that he used to be as a brother to me! We cannot cheat them either.
So please help!!!

Kolli

Dear Kolli,

This happens to a lot of people and it is normal.
What you have to do is make it clear to your parents that things have changed, and that you no longer see this guy as a brother but as someone you love and would like to share the rest of your life with.
You and him have to talk to both your parents and let them see that you have grown up, and that things are not as they used to be.

Good Luck

1 Comment

Muni | January 1, 2006 7:33 PM
hi....
This happens with many ppl. But the only thing a girl is attracted to all these things is...
u called him brother and he is accepting and was verygood to u and at some point of time u recognised that u dont wanna miss him and u want to build up a relation so that u dont miss eachother. But i dont think its correct. Accept things.

I No Longer See Him As A Brother

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