True love is posted in so many ways that some people get confused about what true love is. But yet every one has there own opinion about what they feel true love is. You can sit there and say oh my god I love chocolate but does that mean you love chocolate like you would love your mother or father and does this mean that when you love your mother or father it’s the same as loving your boyfriend/girlfriend or even your husband?
Love is put out there in so many ways. You can love your favorite toy, or your favorite book, or even your favorite food but when you love a person it changes completely. Some people find true love in how the person looks, sometimes true love is found in how much money that person holds in there wallet, and sometimes true love is so blind that your heart leads you towards them and not your mind.
But what does true love mean to me? True love is a state of being it’s a feeling that you feel towards a person that has been there for you every second that you needed them. True love is how a person is towards you and how they act around you. You may say you love some one truly but would you love that person if they disrespected you? Or if they never showed care for you? I don’t think so because true love comes in how that one person is towards you. When a person respects you, when a person loves u as much as you love them or maybe even more, or when that person cares for you like a mother would care for her sick baby. That’s when believe true love comes in when a person is like this towards you I know that it would be true love right away and that person would be your soul mate. So I wanted to post this to see what other people think true love is. Because truly you cant just take one persons definition because every one has a heart and a mind that thinks differently.
By guest writer Amany.
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hi AMANI well 4 me true love is a person with whom i can speak abt everything as if i'm speakin with myself ,i can tell him about my past with all its difficulties & happiness , i enjoy the moment that i'm living with him & dream of a wonderful & better future but 2 do all this the other person has 2 b clear & honnest with me
that's it
love is hell
True Love is one that will always be there. Even though it has come and gone it will always remain apart of you. There is no specific time it hits or how it hits, but when it does it completely shakes the ground you walk on. It is something sweet that you can't smell, something beautiful that you can't see.
hey sad why do u think love is hell? and btw i guess u know my name now im the wrote who wrote this article and im just wondering why would u think love is hell ?
well first of all i want to say that this is a very nice article. thanks PURE HEART. well people have different meaning of what true love is, for me its when ur far away from that person and ur trying to think about what to say to that person when u see him again. true love for me is when you really cant be far away from that person and u cant talk to him/her with stuttering. well true love is one u can never forget even if it doesnt work out in the end
oooh i didnt know it was you. well my dear love is stink and discraze me. dont ask me
Hi Pure Heart... I´m the one who wrote comments in the article that was called virginity and I was under the name Still a virgin... maybe you don´t remember.. anyway i think that this article is very good and I just wanna say that love for me is my fiancé who live in lebanon while i´m living in sweden... and even though we´re far away we still trust in eachother and i`m 100% sure that he´ll never cheat on me because i know that he loves me and that he doesn´t wanna be with anybody else but me!!
anyway all i wanna say is that he taught me what true love is and he´s the one that lets me live in love and feel all the beauti that love has to give... Love is something beautiful but only when you´ve found the right one.. and love isn´t beautiful without a little fight every now and then... as Wael Kfoury says in his song 7ekayet 3ashe2: 7ob eli bida7ek bi fell we 7ob eli bi baki bidal... and that is true!!!
Don´t be afraid to be happy... don´t be afraid to fall in love, but be 100% sure that this person that you fall in love with will love you back! // I Love you ya Ibrahim...
happily in love
of course i remember u and yes i know what u mean its the same exact story between me and my fience and i have been with him for 5 years and we love each other so much and we both trust each other with all our hearts and yes true love is the most special thing that any one could ever find and once u find it u will never let go i cant see my self with out my fience its been a year we have been engaged and i love him soo much and i wish u the best of luck with i guess his name is Ibrahim and im glad u found that person its a wonderful feeling and people should never search for love or force love it should just come by its self
Thanks Pure Heart and i wish the same for you and inshallah you´ll be happy with eachother...
I meet Ibrahim during the summer vacation 2004 and we meet in a shalé and we spent all summer with eachother and of course we fell in love... and we got engaged this summer when I went back to our wonderful homecountry Lebanon...
So i haven´t been with Ibrahim for as long as you have been with your fiancé but I truly feel everything that you say cause even though we haven´t been together for so long but it feels like I´ve known him all my life...
Every life has a meaning.. and for me it was to meet Ibrahim (the man of my dreams)...
Allah ywafe2koun enti we khatibik ma3 ba3ed..
(P.S. I´m Love you Ayman that always writes comments about Ayman in Superstar :P)
True love, is never clear never perfect.
trust is a source to cause problems.
If anyone feels special ...
let him disregard this fact, because and as a well growing experiance that is growing inside my heart as a wound ... "you can never understand a girl" and you will never be special.
Its just that one word, or one sentence leaves a scar in your heart, but why ... just because the other half didnt know !!
There are different kinds of love. The love you have for your child is different then the love you would have for your mate, yet the same. You are as one. They are a part of you and everything they feel, you feel. Everything they want in life, you want for them and will help them to attain. Unless, of course, it is not good for them or bad for their health.
Love to me is mutual respect. Knowing that person will be there for you and you them, whether good days or bad. Knowing you can count on the one you love with your life and vise versa. If the one you love hurts, you hurt. If there is something that you know will ease their pain you will go to great lengths to acquire it or give it. You hold this person above all others. You live for the smile on the face of your loved one. You strive to make them happy. You trust them as much as you trust yourself.
Love should mean happiness not pain.
I am sure there are as many explanations to the meaning of love as there are people.
Of course, this is just my opinion of love. It is not so easy to find true love so when you have that mutual love, the happiness you feel is put out to all around you. Isn't that what God wants for all His children?
Well, I came across this article looking for my own definiton of love. My girlfriend of only a month had said "I love you" last night. I was quiet. We kissed, and that was it. There was nothing more said. We continued on with our evening. I didn't say it back because I don't want to say anything I don't mean. And I can't difine what love is. That is I can't put it into words. I know that everyday I think about her. That after I see her, then go to work I am a wreck, and can't seem to get things accomplished because I I am thinking about the time i just spent w/ her. There is some feeling I have which defies words that I have with her. As if I'm scared to look into her eyes or I might get lost. Weather that makes any sense Thats for you to tell me. Is it all infatuation? I wish I knew. I do, and feel the things that others say is love. Weather I siimply project myself into these feelings becasue I wish to return the "I love You", and say it back, is now the question I am asking myself. I guess what I'm getting at is Thank you for having this up, For those of us still difining what these feelings are. For the record I am 19.
these articul is so interisting.in my opinion we can not give the exact meaning of love.but in conclusion love we feel it truly just one time in all life .you feel every thing that you want is near you and everything in your eyes seams great.in my opinion the love is uncomlite if its not shared between the two"the girl and the boy."i had one experiance in all my life,i loved a gay more than you can emagine he was old than me he was too nice with me i was thinking that he love me but at the end i found that i was nothing for him and that i was just play and two show to people that he can go with any girl he want ,it was feeling that i lost all my hope and nothing will make me happy again.but now after two years im ok but i promise my self i will never have relationship with any one coz i lost confidence in all gays .
at the end i want to say to all gays"if you dont love your girlfriend just tell her the truth frecantly and everything will be ok before she start to love you coz its to hard to forget some one you love even if he hurt you."
My husband is from pakistan and he swore that he will always love me whatever I did. I swore at him twice and now he says he dont love me. He does not care for me anymore. He cares more about his sister who is happily married and he still dont seem to let her go. Did he really come for me??? I believed true love never ended no matter what but he used his love for selfish reasons. This is what I call love nowadays and I hate the word.
I am 26 years old and have never been in love. I've lusted after men and have become easily infatuated but no love. I am curious as to how one will know love. How does it differ from infatuation? I so desperately want to experience this overwhelming emotion. I will continue seeking until hopefully, my question will answer itself.
Recently, my boyfriend asked me if I was 'in love.' I pondered this for a moment and decided I'm not sure how to differentiate 'love' and 'in love.' I started to doubt myself and what I truly felt. How do I know the difference? Is it really that important to understand? I trust him with my life. He respects me and would give the world on a platter to me if i chose it to be so. He loves me unconditionally and said he will satnd by my side until I tell him not to. But now I ask myself, do I feel the same for him? Would I stand by him for always? I respect and love him without a doubt. Is that enough? Is that in love?
I think mamny people come here looking for a simple anwser to what love is, and wether or not they are in love. I did. But I think what most people don't remember is that love cannot be defined really. It is too personal of an emotion to be defined by any one person. Most everyone agrees on a particular feeling that no one can quit5e put into words, but thay say you would know it when you felt it. Helpful right? Not really. The best way I ever had it put to me was in the form of a few questions. 1) What do you like about him/her.
2) now hwat do you love about them
Hi everyone,
i read this article and i like it very much and the comments u have given me i like it very much . U know my friends i have been in love from last 8 months but u know when after 8 months i think that what have i got from this relation my mind goes mad because the person whom i was loving has never loved me she always siad me those words because of her selfish reasons i never had the feeling that she is loving me but i had never recieved that love that a person should get , i am so much fed up with my life and also the wrord love u know i am so much involved in this relation that the moment i think to leave her i just cant do that , and u know what she always treat my like a shoe of her leg , she kicks me she hits me ,she says me bad words and alll but i have always cared for her but now i am so much fed up with this relation that i want to end can anyone help me ?
please help me .
get me out of this chapter ....
This goes out to the user called Happy. I can relate to what you're feeling at this point in your life. I recently came out of a bad relationship that lasted 7 years. I left emotionally broken and scarred . I was told that I was loved and cared about but I was just being manipulated. I was called very mean names and sometimes even hurt physically. How can someone love you or even care about you and purposfully hurt you? The answer is that they don't love you. You may think that as time goes on they might change but its not worth the wasted time or tears. If someone tells you that they love you and then other times they do wrong to you, they're just using you and manipulating your mind and heart. Here's some advice. Don't put yourself through the agony of trying to make someone love you. It may hurt like hell, but you will heal. I truly believe that in time, you will find the one you're looking for. Someone that will love you in return. The hardest part is letting go. Don't try so hard to find love. It will find you when its time.
i dont think love is for me because everytime i feel like im falling in love and i feel soo excited to get that phone call to see him come on and its like so wonderful but then its like just like that they just want to break up ... its crazy... im kinda agreeing wit that one person LOVE IS HELL!!!... sorry but its just my opinion ... but i wish i could find that right guy and be happy ... but i dont think love is for me ... if someone could give me a lil information email me hot_schott4u08@yahoo.com...thanx!!!!
True love is when you love a person so much that it will be hard for you to hate him/her even if he/she hurts you sometimes. It is when you have such a pious feeling towards that person, it would be hard to ever harm him/her.
It would be such that your love for him/her would not be lessened even if you are deprived of social-acceptance/peer-support. It is true love when you are not loving that person to gain in social acceptance/status/money or any other kind of advantage but only for unknown reasons which cannot be explained.
true love is when you will still love the person even if you unfortunately lose him/her.
True love is when you can sit with the person for hours without the need to have to talk even and feel great in the end.
Thats true love.
hi am pretty girl am 17 years old am not sure about what does love means i think love is some thing nice and cute i think that i love my boyfriend but i cant tell him that i love him unless i,ll be sure that i really do because i dont wanna break his heart he is so cute with me am thinking about him all the time i dont like any boy just him even when i see handsom guys i remember him see i cant keep him out of my mind he is the most beatiful thing happen in my life in fact i dont wanna spend my life with out him this is my new email if u wanna talk 2 me ok last_love_2009@yahoo.com
WELL IT WAS A POINT OF TIME THAT I REALLY DIDNT BELIEVE IN LOVE OR THAT THERE EVER WAS A SUCH THING AS TRUE LOVE BUT I CAME TO LEARN THAT TRUE LOVE COMES AT THE RIGHT TIMES. NOT ALWAYS WHEN U WANT IT BUT I GUESS WHEN GOD FEELS ITS YOUR TIME. WHEN TWO PEOPLE TRULY LOVE EACH OTHER IT CAN BE THE GREATEST FEELING IN THE WORLD BUT AT THE SAME TIME CAN ALSO THE BE THE MOST PAINFUL IF YOU WAS TO EVER LOSE THAT PERSON. SO I SAY THAT YES IT IS A COMPLICATED THING. AFTER I LOST MY FIRST LOVE, I DIDNT BELEIVE IN LOVE FOR A LONG TIME. I MET MY FIANCEE AND I FELT THAT STRONG CONNECTION AGAIN. I FELT THAT WITHOUT HIM MY LIFE WOULD HAVE NO DEFINITION, AND TO HAVE THAT EYE CONNECTION ASSURING TRUST, SAYING THAT THERE IS NOTHING TO HIDE, PLAYS A EXCELLENT ROLE IN THAT. IN MY OPINION THERE IS ONLY ONE TRUE LOVE, UNLESS THAT PERSON, FOR HEAVENS SAKE DIES. IF YOU WAS TO LOSE SOMEONE YOU LOVED, AND IT WASNT FROM DEATH, THEN THAT WAS NOT TRUE LOVE.
Somebody help me. i am in love with an older girl. She is 15 and im 13! We arent going out, but i cant stop thinking about her. Someone plz give me some advice!
i believe as much as love may hurt som1 as bad as wantin 2 kil him or her self it's somtin dat every 1 sld experience, bcuz on d other side it's really a beauty an u always hav a smile apond yr face. it feels g8 2 no dat u love som1 dat love u bac jus as much or even more. not jus talkin abou mom an dad k. talkin abou boyfrend an girlfrend. every relationships has it's ups an downs u jus need 2 trust an hold on 2 wat u want 2 succeed n yr relationship. it's really hard when either 1 hurts each other but as i said b4 if u want yr relationship 2 wok out jus keep prayin an fightin 4 yr love 1. if som1 really loves u dey wil put u first b4 any other thing as wel dey wil do any tin 4 u.
There’s a clear difference between love of humanity, love of materiality and love of idolatry. One being humanity is what u know and what u feel, materials are all the products u consume, idol love is the things u r blind 2 yet are devoted 2 and in reality the object of affection is nothing more then a stranger or a concocted illusion...celebrity for instance, certain faiths and so on.
You guys think the lust and horniness factor lasts forever with the partner but that stage passes and u will eventually feel the same level of love u feel with the rest of your family...bil tabee3a. The partner manages to work your s*x hormones once in a while, other then that no diff. All love comes from the same place- heart and mind. Any kind of affection that comes from one of those is not enough to be called love. Love is meant 2 be complete. And it shouldn’t mean that u fall head over heals blindly in love and forget your own loyalties and your own mind…that is being blinded by other factors.
Loneliness enables a deception of love coz u’ll spend such a time being physically alone (and who in this day and age doesn’t complain about loneliness?), then Mr x or Miss y or Ms seduction waltzes in and gives u the look, wines and dines u (or accepts all your gifts with a flutter of the eyelashes if the object is miss y) and u'll be fooled into thinking I’ve found Mr/ miss right. Nopppe, nah…love is when someone sees u in the rough and in the buff and sees your strengths and weaknesses and your clumsiness but will still be there for u through thick and thin. I don’t think we should feel the need to ALWAYS impress the loved one/s.
Anyway there’s a huge difference between love and passion. Books (esp. fiction) and films and music and all those ‘pass time’ materials which may mean more to us internally as individuals are passions, not loves. We just use the word love often because it’s become a regular word…it’s not the correct word though for perhaps 99% of the things we use it to describe. There are other things we can use such as like, adore, appreciate, lust, devour, admire, yearn for, crave, understand, recommend, connect (to/with)…………………….
Anyway me hungry, need to buy chicken wings and not making any sense…Salams.
RRRespect, look up to
LOVE is complicated,the thing is OVE can make u happy or miserable.it's all up 2 the person u LOVE(if u actually LOVE him/her.u might think am crazy but i'd love ma girlfriend 2 be:a little sensitive,independant,stubborn(i like it when she defends wat she thinks is right,and defyant.in simpler words i'd hate 2 have a simple relationship.when you TRUELY LOVE a person it's impossible 2 have a perfect relationship cuz of how protective a guy would be over the girl,but that's a stage a guy would have 2 accomplish).AND GUYS PLZ DNT TELL UR GIRLFRIENDS WAT 2 WEAR THAT's JUST THERE STILE.;) girls must be lovin me right now(but it really is my honest opinion).remember guys don't be over protective,they can take care of themselves.
Have been inlove believe me.when u love someone you'd do anythin.i was so inlove with my ex.girlfriend that i didn't even care wat her religeon was,didn't even care to know her age(but she wasn't that much older than me).as bryan adam sings in WHEN YOU LOVE SOMEONE.you'd do anythin 4 her,make her happy and being loyal to her is ur duty.Girls are flexible,be extra carefull or you could easily brake her HEART.When you're inlove everythin around you disappears it's just her standing infront of you with her words "I LOVE YOU" stuck in you're head.guy's might be stronger but girls have full control of guys.LIFE WITHOUT LOVE IS NO LIFE AT ALL.if u wanna chat 2 me bout dis,ma emails are:danny.e14@hotmail.com or seductive-dude@hotmail.com .am 15 years old.
Hey people,ur probably wonderin when am gonna stop writing hehe.but i can't get the subject outa my head,i feel soooooo much hunger for commitment,trust,loyalty,and most importantly LOVE.i wanna make someone happy and for that person to make me happy to.You can say that i'm inlove with love.making a girl happy means everything to me.LOVE has just driven me crazy.when she feel's sad i wanna cheer her up,when she feel's lonely i want her to know that i'm always by her side,when she's scared i wnt her to know that i'm always gonna protect her and be by her side,when she feels UNLOVED i want her to know that there is someone who LOVES her and always will love her 4ever,and ever,and ever,and ever,and ever,and ever,until the end of time.when i'm inlove it dosnt matter to me if she's:drzi,shiite,sunni,catholic,maronite,orthadox,or any kind of religeon(love is too special to think of those thing's).That people,is true love.am lebanese and i'm very proud of it.(pretyy shocked that a 15 year old guy has those feelings huh?,love is everything to me).i hope u feel the way i do.
God is Love.
Love is the lovely thing joining Thaly Boustros and Michel Fadel together. Its showing in their eyes and its shining everywhere.
I wish i could find this kind of love
thats nice karen but love is god in my eyes. although if thaly and michel are in love as u said than god is in their life giving a power for this love to continue. and yes NYELOUN
akid el hob helo khasatan eza ken el couple helwin. michel wou thaly helwin bas lei ma fi souwar la eloun bel magazines aw online?
The most beautiful, the most sincere, the most elevated and the most exalted kind of love is most certainly the love of the One Whom hearts were created to love, and for Whom creation was brought into existence to adore. Allah is the One to Whom hearts turn in love, exhalation and glorification, humility, submission and worship. Such worship cannot be directed towards other than Him. It is the perfection of love accompanied by complete submission and humility. Allah is loved for His own sake in every respect. All except Him are loved for the love they give in return. All the revealed Books, and the message of all the Prophets, bear witness to the love that is due towards Him, as does the natural impulse He has created in all His servants, the intellect He has given them, and the blessings He has poured on them.
Hearts, as they mature, come to love whomever is merciful and kind towards them. So how much greater is their love for Him from Whom all kindness springs!
hey man i love this artical and this really good one man !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! soo hey man u r muslim soo me too that,s really koool comment and i love this one !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
bye yo for now
Some people just love to be in love, it does not matter who the other person is. You have to love yourself before loving anyone else, otherwise your love is doomed. Recognising true love if such thing exists comes with age, I do not believe in those high school romances. Any relationship can work(well most), even if you do not feel the special magic that some people claim comes with love. Sacrifice and compromise.
what is love ? does any one of u believe a sentence or tow can answer this controversial question ? actualy no ... and absolutely no... but as am extremely intrested in this supjcet.. i cant but write .
love is when you look into some ones eyes andd feel the pain of passion burning deep inside u , its when u feel a tear filling you eyes just for the thought of this person , love is when u get moved by a touch of his or her hand rather then a kiss ... love is when u feel the whole world nothing and absolutely nill when this person is not beside u .. love is when u r ready to give up an entire life for the sake of a person u love ... its when u give your heart and soul as a precious gift to your beloved ... and ask for nothing in return ... this is love guys and itss much mre than thann when you are love bakkk coz it keeps on growing till it crosses the limits and become a fairy tale
True love is when you cry about someone when he leaves you!!!And the true love is for me when i love my husband or boyfriend!!!!But when i love my parents i love them in an other way not like i love my husband or boyfriend......
hey,i've just gone to a new skool and there is this girl i really like.i have no idea about how she feels bout me.most people would like other girls but there is somethin bout this girl that makes me go crazy.i love her blueish greyish eyes,everytime i look in her eyes i feel somethin amazing.I THINK I'M INLOVE.wish me luck;)
I LOVE HER
AND ALWAYS WILL
4 EVER
AND EVER
i hope she feels the same way bout me.cuz if not i'll b EXTREMELLLLLLLLLLYYYYYYYYYYY depressed.as i've been the last 4 years out of lebanon.
lool,dani the same thing is happening 2 me,u wont believe but yes.lol
anyways am not seein u online these days when do u go on we need 2 talk?!
definition of love:love is not just aword to say,love is not like a game to play,love doesnt know ages.love comes from the heart!
this is REAL LOVE
but that doesnot mean that any girl that you like or think shes nice its reallove its also love but some other kind.
i believe reallove happens once in the life.
True love...
My thoughts on this are...
It is to cry, to love, to feel, to care, to comfort the person, it is going through trouble of trying to love, being in love is something everyone thinks happens but in truth love is not as it seems anymore.
To overcome your weaknesses and to show each other that those faults are just fears and not real, to hold that perons when he or she cries on you and tell u things that they have been hiding and asking u for forgiveness, true love is something not easily achieved, and it is only achieved by your heart, love does not come to you like mail, you have to go get it yourself.
And finally true love is when you will do anything for that person and in return the person will do anything for you, in my case if i had to die for her i would, even i she decides to let me go someday.
heyyy!!!
wasapnin?
im new on all this, neva really gvn my thoughts b4..
ive experienced some hurtful love
i was with a fella 4 3 years....i loved him so much, i put him b4 myself, tryd m best 2 make him happy, we both got along so well, we had such a beautiful relationship until i found out he'd been cheating on me all along. thats when i started thinkin love was nothing, it was just words.
i loved him more than anything, i went through so much 4 diz guy with my parents 2. i was heartbrokn...it felt like id lost my identy!
i felt stupid and humilitd
now i dont know what to do...im to weak to leav him.
we alwayz argu because the trust we had isnt there...wel myn isnt. i cnt trust him anywer.
i cnt let go either cz it kills hes a part of my life, i feel incomplt without him.
what am i spowz 2 do? please help me out! u lot all swnd so sure on what love is...thank q! mwhz! x x x x x x
Hi my dear i'm thanks very much for knowing how to love and ca thanks. you are love like the bible said . i'm reply my own in this way to u.
Well... my boyfriend loves me so much but he also like flirting girls by line too. For this problem I'm jealous. When I talk about this with him, he said that he flirted girls just for relax not for real as he do to me. How can I do?? I know that's hard o beleive him. But I love him so much so much... I can't lose hime. And I hope one day I can make him change!!!!
what is true love anyway you find who you think your true love and they break you heart.
true love for me has felt like hell
"TRUE LOVE" still a mystery & like chasing & ctaching rainbow..tried & failed so many times bt never been able to figure it out, if i love some one so truely & care about him selflessly he's not sincere & when one is sincere with me i want to go for more..
bt most of the time i care & love them with all my heart n feelings & everyone comes uses and leaves :( so just been able to reach the conclusion that the only ONE who loves u,cares for u,forgives every sin when u approach is ur LORD
well guys:D real love i think is something hard enough to define it is more than just feeling its also UNDERSTANDING AND TRUSTING!! sometimes words like i cant live without you fools us thinking the person realy loves us yet if that person cant understand and doesnt trust if he cant hold his/her jelousy how would the word i love u i cant live without you fix this?? well actualy would it?? so i think realy love is realy hard to get isnt it?:D
i think its much better to stay cool that'll keep u high .
nice to read all the comment byeezz goodluck to all
True love for me is happiness. You feel happy and inspired everyday and missing him every seconds. Well not all people do show love by saying the words "I love you" but deep inside their feeling is special.
i like this very much.......