Love & Romance


heart on fire

I like my best friend and she used to like me too. But her feelings for me changed and she's going out with her ex-boyfriend now! Me and her did so many stuff over the summer and i have no clue how her feelings just went away and it makes me so mad. I kissed her over the summer too, she said she loved me but now she's going out with somebody. I don't know what to do ... we still hang out and have fun but it hurts seeing her with him.
Please help ...

rh

Dear rh,

Well, as long as you are still friends and you hang out together, that is an accomplishment.
But if she hasn't shown any recent interest in you on the "love" level, then just leave things as they are, maybe she is happy with her ex again ... maybe you did something while you were together that changed her feelings towards you ...There is no use in throwing yourself at her now if she isn't interested!
Just leave things like they are now, and enjoy your time with her as a friend ... give her some time, then if she shows you any hints that she still loves you, then go ahead and tell her how you feel and see where that takes you.

Good Luck

comments

nahraien
1 December, 5:34PM

well my best advice to you is move on and try to forget because love from one sight is not gonna get you anywhere i know its hard to be in that spot but try to stay away from her so you could move on . you could talk to her once in a while but not all the time so you dont get very attached to her. Good luck