Things aren't so well. I'm madly in love with this boy. I'm 13 and he is nearly 18, and I'm not sure if he's the right age for me, but i love him and i can't help it. Everyone thinks he is in love with me as well, but I'm not sure. Once i went down to a square to buy something and he was sitting in a cafeteria with his friends and they all looked at me, but at one point they stopped looking at me and he continued, and one other time i saw him in a Internet cafe, he looked at me and straight away said something to his friends, this happened loads of times!
What do you think?
Just In Love
Dear Just In Love,
Don't take things too seriously, it might be nothing important.
You are still too young for real love, it might be admiration or infatuation that you are experiencing, so let things happen naturally, and don't try too hard.
If you are friends with this guy then great! Enjoy that and be happy!
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Awwww, that is so sweet. I know the feeling u are describing because i went through an exactly the same feeling when i was 14! i was in love with a 17 year old though, and he was the best thing that could ever happen to me. We began by exchanging glances and smiles, and eventually ended up being the two most loved up couple u will ever come accross, so there is hope. Just one point worth making though, dont take things too seriously because u dont know what happens in the future and dont become too overly attached to this guy, unless u are certain that he loves u and wants a realtionship with u at which he should say it to your face, and even when he tells you that he loves you dont become attached too quickly leave it at least a couple of years, and if you guys are still together at this tender age for more than 2 - 3 years then begin to create an attachment to further build your relationship. As for my dream lover, well basically i had to end it for reasons beyond my control. It doesnt mean ive stopped loving him, once u love someone u cant stop no matter how harsh life is. It wasnt his fault it was mine. He still loves me too, but we know that fate wont let us be together. So we gotta carry on and move on in our lives phyiscally, but not necessarily emotionally. I WILL ALWAYS LOVE HIM EVEN AFTER I DIE. Just be happy and cool ur still young and u've got the world ahead of u!
Well for me, Age is not important in a relationship. It is just a state of mind. What matter is, you love,respect and trust each other.
I agree age doesnt matter its the state of mind, and also i am sitting here crying cos of how much i relate to both of ur sotires! I am 14 and he is 17 i love this boy but he says he dusnt like me back but he always looks at me and once we had a row on msn and he blocked me 4 ages but he never deleted me and he always checked my screename to see if it was about him, i dnt no to this day if it means nethin but i no 4 sure i love him and always always will so 13 is not impossible to fall in love cos i am only 14.
look i know your madly in love with this rely cool older guy, he makes you feel special, and you most deffinatly feel more secure with him becuase he is older than you; but before you fall to deep in love make sure that he is who you think he is, a couple of years ago when I 12 a guy that I had liked since I was nearly 9 asked me out, the only problem was that he was 14 and all though at the time I did not know it he was a drug addict aswell, I know that my life is not the same as yours, but Sean screwed up my life, and all though I know that I did love him, and even when my parents took him away from me We still stod strong togethor, then the law took him far away from me and it took 4 months and 2years for me to realize that 1/2 of the time we were togethor I truly did not love him, I just knew that when he was with me he stoped using and stoped drinking, he still smoked but i had to help him and that was the only reason i was still dateing him, and now that i know this I'm not depressed anymore and I have one of the best boyfriends a gurl could ask for, he buys me things, he says I'm beautiful, he's strong, and my parents approve of him, aswell as my friends and my friends' parents. I know that you don't know me and I don't know you, just make sure that he is clean , not even emotional problems becuase you will hurt and risk everything that you love rite now, ask the other girls he's dated before or just the one's in his class, and if you ask me you are to young for him, look i know your gunna read this and take it to heart, but not believe it, just listen to your parents and your friends and his ex's or other gulrs in his class. I promise!!!!!!!
*~Merry Christmas~*
Lexi