I like my new classmate, she is new in college.
How can i get close to her, as a friend or lover?
Sumit
Dear Sumit,
The best way to get close to her is to try and be friends with her, get to know her slowly, through studying or other college activities, then you have to get more personal, ask her out for a drink, or for a snack.
This is the way to establish a friendship with her.
Then if things feel like turning into a romantic relationship, then they will, just be natural, and be yourself.
If you and she are meant to get into a romantic relationship with each other, you will.
Good Luck
