My name is Jessy and i like a person who's 24 and he lives next block. I see him every single day, when I see him i feel like hugging him. My parents know his parents and they visit each other and they are cool with each other. I liked him ever since i was in the neighborhood and he didn't know that until last week! I had never talk to him or anything but i always ask about him. One day, my brother told me that he asked about me and he asked my brother if i like him, so my brother said yes. Now he's trying to talk to me!
The next day my brother told me that he thinks that he likes me. I was so happy about that but the only thing that is confusing me is how should we talk to each other and i don't want my parents and his parents to know! Plus, he is older than me by 8 years! Do you think that this a problem? I know that I am young, but I love him a lot and i was happy when i found out that he likes me too.
Please tell me what should i do?
Jessy
Dear Jessy,
There is no harm in liking a guy that is 8 years older than you. But honestly, the thing is: you are still too young, you are only 16! Plus, it isn't clear why you don't want your parents and his to know!
In all cases, as long as you are not doing anything wrong, then there is nothing wrong in letting the world know that you talk to this guy, and after all, he is a neighbor!
Just let things come naturally, and have fun, enjoy your time and be friends with your neighbor! There is no harm in this at all!
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u dongthave to be aploageatic go straight to the guy and look him in the eye and talk to him introduce yurself tell him that u wouldlike to be friends with him as he is yur neighbur. see his reaction nothing wrong in this have courage and confidence in yourself u sillygirl
thx vasanth pal
Awww this is a sweet story. Reminds me off old 60's movies and the sterotypical love cliche of 'the boy next door!' hehe how sweet.
So if u relaly like him and u think he likes u, i think u shud make frends with him first, let ur parents know tho dont make it a secret coz theres no need to! so what if iu are chattin or are frends with ur neighbour! then through yur convo's u can tell whther he likes u or not. But eventually tell him u like him, so at least he has an idea and see what he sez! not straight ahead tho, its a bit drastic
Your problem is verry simple or I can tell you there is no problemes in your story you can just face you neighbour and tell him about your feelings. And why you want your relationship to be in secet I mean whats the problem in that? everyone do that and every girl have a boyfriend. I just want to tell you be courage and good luck.
thx a lot nana