I've known the guy I like for 5 years; I've liked him ever since then! I started telling people I like him. I also started telling him that I liked him, but when it didn't work out I just told everybody that I didn't like him. But now I can't keep it inside! I know he doesn't like me, but I keep getting these invisible hints that he does!
Me and a few friends went over to his house to watch a movie and I looked at him and then I turned back to the screen, out of the corner of my eye I could see him watching me, it was 5 wonderful seconds. And then we played truth or dare ...
like always and he sat right in front of me, he told my friend who he likes -not me- I'm his best friend, and everybody is telling me to tell him I like him! Everybody thinks we'll get married one day!!
I CANT HANDLE THIS!! WHAT SHOULD I DO??
Help me please!!
~bee~
Dear ~bee~,
Frankly, it might be that you are sensing what you would like to sense … just because he looked at you, or just because you think you are getting some invisible hints, doesn’t mean that he likes you or loves you …
You will either have to forget about the ‘Like’ situation, and just go on to really being his best friend, or you will have to face the guy, and tell him that you like him once and for all, and see what happens after that!
If you are a risk-taking girl, then go for it, if not then just stick to making your friendship better.
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well i think that if u rly like this kid and u feel like he does too then i think u should try to tlk to him boutit and have him tell u exactly wat he thinks of u but sumtimes they like to play stupid and act like they dont cuz they dont wanna deal with wat they friends gotta say or something but wats the worst that can happen u tell him and he says he dont like u liek that u get sad but at least u wont b wonderin u no at least u were straight up with him n u can go on being friends and maybe one day he'll see ya diffrently idk good luck!
yeh i am in the same situation...ive like a guy for 5 yrs...he keeps flirting with me..but i dont know what he means..i comfronted him and he said no he just wants to be mates. That hurt me but now we are best friends...and its so much better coz i can be with him more, and also get to know all his secrets etc. Its much more fun than being gf and bf. try it!!