I have been married for 19 years and met someone over six years ago. His name is Michael. We became somewhat intimate. We go on and off with our contact. Recently we started talking about "getting together".
That never transpired and I became too aggressive. So now Michael indicates he wants to be just friends. I am having severe trouble letting go. I have strong feelings for him. Last year I went to a psychic and she said we would be married in two years. My feelings are real for him. If I give him his space, do you think he'll return?

Linda

Dear Linda,

I think the whole situation isn’t totally clear, you are married for 19 years and you met a guy, are you still married to the other one or not?

If you have a trust worthy psychic, then maybe you should go to her again, and let her answer your question.

In all cases, if you are still married, then you have to solve your issues with your husband, and then move on to a new phase. If not, then you have to see what it is that you really want; some time out, or a new guy in your life.
If the second is your choice, then maybe you should get together with your guy, explain your situation, apologize for any aggressiveness that might have driven him away and then give him his space and see where things go from there.

Good luck