Everything I do is wrong, I try so hard to give my husband what he needs and he turns it down. I went in to have my wisdom teeth pulled this morning and all he did was grip at me and the dentist and when we got home you think he would help me, NO! I had to clean the house, take care of my 2 year old son, do laundry and when I told him my mouth was hurting he said it’s not that bad!
He had no compassion at all. We have been married for 3 years and we always fight and I’m really getting tired of it. There’s no love between us, I’m his slave, but I know what I have to do. When I don’t have a job, I’m the devil and when I do have a job, I’m an angel, both him and his mother are the same way, one minute they are my friends and the next minute they are fighting with me! He always takes her side and never mine. If his mom is mad at me then he’s mad at me.
When we got married, all I wanted was love and it’s never been there for me.
Another thing is that he doesn’t let me talk with any of my family, not even my 2 kids from my previous marriage. I just want out! I need help, please someone help me!
Tracy
Dear Tracy,
You said it: “I just want out” !
If you can get a job and depend on your self, then just do that! If you want love from this relationship, and you’re not getting love, then leave this relationship and don’t give importance to anything but yourself and your needs.
By the way, he cannot stop you from seeing your loved ones, especially your kids, do not tolerate this! Be strong and do something to help your self!
Good Luck
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For one, you said you tried so hard to fufill your husband needs. That's not good. Of course there will be problems in all relationships, but if it too much to handle, you shouldn't been in it the first place.
Secondly, giving all and not getting much in return makes everything one-sided and for you emotionally drained.
This man is between you and your family especially your kids, and to me that crosses the line. I think you made the right decision wanting to leave. You deserve someone that will appreciate you and accept eveything that you do for them.
As the old saying goes, you never miss the water until the well runs dry. That very much applies to your husband if the two of you split. So whatever decision you make, hopefully it will be the best one.