How come a couple of months ago I thought that I had found Mr. Right and now all I see is how old he is (11 years older), and how he needs to be introduced to so many ‘fun’ things, and how I feel suffocated by him?
Pumpkin
Dear Pumpkin,
I am sorry to have to tell you that the feeling that you thought was ‘love’, is nothing but passing by infatuation or admiration!
Because if it were love, it wouldn’t feel like the way you describe.
Maybe you would like to give the guy another chance, just try to have as much fun with him as you can; you suggest going out and doing things together. You do the part of introducing him to the fun things you want. And see where things go from there.
If they don’t get better, and you still feel suffocated y him, break the news to him, and get along with your life.
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i think you are making a big mistake by thinking he is too old to get life as you see it. older men are fun and sexy but younger men are more trouble than anything else. if you love your guy, you wouldn't be saying this. have you thought maybe the issue is you not him? maybe you keep yourself from seeing his true self so you wont fall in love with him?
younger men are trouble.. not necceserly .. older men r fun and sexy .. not necceserly .. but the thing is .. look for the things that attracted u when u guys first had a thing for each other .. back when u thought he was mr.right..introducing people to fun things is itslef so much fun.. its like reliving the first time u did this fun thing .. if u r certain of the way u feel .. then u must end this before he gets more attatched to u .. it would hurt him more then...
Zaid
ps: just out of honesty.. there is a big age diffirence