A month ago I was going out with the guy of my dreams who I had liked for two years. I had a permanent smile on my face for a whole week and only a week, because he dumped me the week after. I always thought he was way better then me and way far out of my league, so that’s why I was ecstatic when he asked me.
This hurt so much it made me throw up and collapse, my world was literally caving in and there was nothing I could do about it. I had blown my chance with the one guy I loved.
We were, and still are best friends, but I still really liked him even though he is a complete male slag and treats girls like s**t. Oh! And I’m going out with his best mate. Complex?
My boyfriend likes me way more then I like him and I can’t get my ex out of my head. Give me some advice on what I should do
Becstar
Dear Becstar,
I guess after the ex dumped you and you know that he treats girls like s**t, then you have to get him out of your head no matter what!
And if your currant boyfriend loves you a lot, then don’t let go of him! It is a bit hard finding a good guy these days.
Think logically, and take care.
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the best advice is make yourself busy and forget that person... When people find a new relation, they get more attracted to them and forget the past.. Don't take me wrong.. But life is such... so Cheers!!!
i was going out with a guy for like two month, so we were starting to build up a relationship. i mean i really liked him...but he was the kind of guy who's really shy...so i he told me he wants to take everything slow. then yesterday i gave him a call so that we could meet...he said no he's busy and stuff, after like 4 or 5 hours he called my best friend to tell her he wants to have a talk with me the next day. so i called him, again, and he said his ex-girlfriend came back to him and he wants us to be just "good" friends!!! what the f*** is that??!! could someone please help me, i'm going crazy. what does she have that i don't? (excuse me for my english by the way...i'm german)
Neda,
Sorry to say that your guy is not shy, he is confused and doesn't know what he wants. I think he didn't want you from the time he said he wants to take it slowly. It is not that what you don't have,its him that doesn't appreciate you. Just move on and try and find someone who you can have fun without thinking about what he likes in you, find out what he likes instead. That way you can get to know him better and get to know him slowly. It is going to be fun just getting to know a person slowly.