There was this guy that I went out with not even a month. He was a nice guy but the problem was he used to talk about other girls which I used to hate so much. Especially when we are having a nice conversation he comes from no where and tells me about one of his ex-girlfriend's story and how he had a good time with her.

I wanted to tell him many times that this annoys me but I didn't want to show him that I care because I thought he didn't care. One day I got angry at him when he talked to me rudely and left the table. I was going to talk to him but then when I realized he didn't come the second day and ask me what's the matter. I thought he didn't care. I got hurt so much.

When one day I told his brother to get the book that I gave him once then he came the second day and gave me the book and wanted to solve some things. He told me what made him angry bout me and then asked if there was anything I wanted to tell him but I said there was nothing. He said are we cool now I said I guess I didn't even smile at him and then he left.

The second I said hi to him but then I realized he changed. I called him but then we talked as we were friends. Then I got confused because I thought we were not in a relationship. I wanted to ask him what is going on but I was afraid if he will reject me so I just broke up with him and I told him we could be friends but I really didn't mean it is just I was confused I just wanted to see what he would say and he told me he is okay with it but he was angry and mean to me.

The second day I thought it was my mistake and I wanted to talk to him. So I asked him if we could meet somewhere he agreed but he told me lets meet after exams. I said fine so I wanted to tell him everything in my heart and that I want to come back to this relationship until he asked my friend out just before the last day of exam. I didn't know what to say. My friend told me he was very stupid. he was grapping her hand and flirting with her. she just thought he was weird after that I thought there was no point of meeting him if he thinks about another girl. The second day I see him and his brother. the guy gets upset because I didn't say hi. Like he is saying she doesn't care and she doesn't want to say hi. You know I felt when he asked my friend out I felt like he thought I wanted him and he rejected me. My friend told me don't worry I don't think he thinks you care about him that's way he is being rude to you and he is showing you that he doesn't care, But I don't know ,she could be wrong.

Can you please give me advice. it been 3 month and I feel he forgotten about me and he doesn't like anymore and is too late to tell him how I feel. I feel like if I had told him what was in my heart. maybe he was going to understand and I could feel relieved. I feel that this relationship wasn't suppose to end this way. Can you please help and give me advice I want to be with this guy?

Salwa

Dear Salwa,

I think that it would be really cheap of you to try to get back together with this guy!
What has happened has happened, and you cannot reverse things.
Just be yourself, and stay cool! And try to get things back on track with him as ‘friends’.