I've always had trust issues with men (cheaters and liars), my whole life. This has made me an incredibly guarded person and now that I've met someone wonderful I don't know how to open up and let him in. Where do I start?
Rebecca
Dear Rebecca,
You will have to start with the tiny, small things, and then go up to the serious stuff.
You know, not all men are cheaters and liars!
Don’t be afraid to open up and share stuff with this guy, after all, you can never got to know him well, unless you do open up and let him get to know you as well …
Wish you all the best.
Good luck.
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hey i was reading your thing and all i know is i am a man that dating this girl that older then i am and has 2 kids and i am happy but not habby beacuse she is not letting me in and that hurts and i never do anything wrong because i love her but still closed doors so dont do that be open because if he loves you he is hurting
I agree all men are liars and cheaters and cant be trusted.
how can u say that all men are liars and cheaters, ur basing that on the people u have been with how many people are in this world how many men are in this world, u only have the right to judge the males you have experienced being with. there are roughly 3 billion males on this planet and theyre all different just because you have been with a fiew doesnt mean u know all of them
I have to agree all men are liars and cheaters, if given the opportunity every man will cheat, we know they lie. I stopped dating nine years ago because of this problem, and I was tired of the deception and the cheating, so I decided to give it another try but the same thing happened again. The man I was dating turned out had not broke up with his former girlfriend but wanted to wait how things worked out before he broke it off, of course I broke it off with him and have decided never to date again, it is not worth the time nor the effort to get to know them, being single and content is the best way to go in this world we live in today. The world we live in promotes promiscuity of every kind and it is reflected in the men and women we seek to date. I wish everyone the best but as for me it is not worth it.
Well,
I was almost about to believe that not all men are cheaters and liars untill the man I was supposed to marry decided to sleep with hes baby mama- I tried to give him all my love no matter the age difference, or that he had a daughter, or that he had horrible up credit- I thought our relationship with God based and true love- I was soo wrong but now I know all men are dogs. liars and cant be trusted!
I'm sorry but i may only be 20 and probably haven't had as much experience as the people who seem to think that all men are liers and cheaters.. i have had extreme trust issues following events that i wish not to post on here, but i have recently met a guy who is so wonderful he is prepared to stick by me, and this makes me trust him, and want to open up to him.. there is no point in closing your mind to men, and not letting the right ones in.. for if you don't trust people, how are you ever going to have any meaningful relationships.. and in truth you'll wind up old and alone.. for people are made to be in relationships, and in order to be in a relationship you need to trust, and you can only trust by being in a relationship, and opening up to that person slowly and surely and if they are any kind of decent person they will not betray your trust.. you can't judge every man by just a few that have screwed you over, for every person is different and that's what makes the world so interesting..
men suck. they tell lies. they cheat. they cant see life past their peckerz.
i'm sorry but i can not agree with you there.. you seriously need to not be so closed minded to guys. not all of them think with their di cks.
Of coure Man are going to be liers and cheaters if the are EXPECTED to be. And even if the are some who are not afret been suspected and accused of been so thay would enevitably become such. It is because of WOMEN that man are what thay are!!!