Well I have what I may call a problem. Here is a little but funny story.
I'm an African, but live and study here in Russia. Last week, I went to send money home through Western Union Money Transfer. There was a lady there. She was the person that attended to me. The way she was looking at me from the time I came there till the time I left, has left me confused.

I completed all the forms (writing my name, receivers name, amount to be sent, secrete questions and so on). She gave me my control number, and then when I was about to go home, the way she was looking at me made me to ask for her phone number. She immediately wrote it down for me. I gave her mine too.
There, I asked whether we could see each other and talk. She replied "of course why not". But she said she would not be free from work till next another week. So we agreed to meet at one park in one-week time.

That was how I met this girl. To be sincere, I seem to like her, because she looks that charming, and the way she was looking at me confused me the more. She is beautiful too.

Now comes my problem. Please as we are to meet in one week time. What advice would you give me because I may not like to loose this girl? (I don't have any girl friend). We are going to talk to each other, how do I converse with her, how do I talk and effectively communicate with her. Which things do we talk about? Here is my biggest PROBLEM. Sometimes I find it very difficult to bring up topics of discussion when I'm talking with a girl.
What do I discourse so that we will not be buried in awkward and frequent silence during conversation. I would also appreciate your advice on my body language to use. Unfortunately again I'm very shy but I don't at all want it to be a barrier from me capturing this pretty chick I guess God drooped for me. Again how often do I call her? Always? Twice a day? Everyday? Or what? I guess I'm not too bad looking then. There have been 6 girls who have shown interest in me but I've never taken up on the chance. I'm serious and I will be counting on you for your advice.

Anthony

Dear Anthony,

Remember, first impressions are lasting!
Because this is your first serious thing with a girl, you have to be very smooth.
Avoid extra serious matters, like politics, religion and war …
Always keep in mind positive matters, and keep away from negative things like death or illness.
Ask her about her job, where and what she studied … maybe something will pop up that is easy to take about.
Talk about traveling, movies, local events and arts.
You can also tell her about your country “if she asks, or is interested”.
You can also tell her a few jokes if the opportunity comes up; make sure the jokes are clean and rated!
Avoid touching her in any way because this is your first date, but don't be stiff, try being relaxed and comfortable.
I hope these few guidelines are helpful.
Wish you all the good luck.