I've been with my girlfriend for two years and a half. The only big issue I have with her is that she keeps on talking to her ex she was with for seven years. I don't mind if they talk sometimes but not constantly. If she has a problem with she goes to him to talk about it. I feel like she is comparing both of us. She even got to a point she was having second thought about our relationship because of him. I'm really confused now, what should I do?
Reg
Dear Reg,
You have to talk to your girlfriend, and make it clear that this issue bothers you a bit, because you love her. Try to show more interest in her problems and matters, and keep a listening ear to whatever she feels like saying, she will find a listener in you, and wont need to go to another person. You will have to put an effort into this relationship to solve this matter.
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I know how you feel man. In this case, if she still doesnt stop contacting her ex after you talking to her. Then whats the use of being and feeling insecured. How long do you think, you'd be able to hold her. If she is so easy to leave you, then brother let her go. She aint worth it.
Hey Man,
Same is my situation.My Gf had relation for 4 years.She broke with him.But still she contacts him herself.I tried to tell her and she told me dont be possesive and insecured.Guys its really killing me.She loves me alot but deep in my heart honestly jealoosy when she says what they use to do when she was with him.This makes me really depressed.Guys i love her a lot and cant afford to leave her.Please Advice
my name is anthony im in love with my girlfriend she just droped me about couple days ago after beenin with her for 2and half yrs i miss her and i really want to talk to her how do i do it she wont even asnsewr phonei need help can anyone help me about it?