Recently I have been feeling really confused about a guy mate of mine who I've known for about 2 years. When I'm with him I feel really weird. I've found when we all sit on the tables in the form room I seem to find I’m sitting myself close to him so we are touching and looking at him a lot. The thing is I don't feel attracted to him physically and he's not the kind of guy I usually like. But today I found I really wanted to kiss him.
I really don't think that he likes me but I really need help because I'm confused and I don't know what to do. I really don't want to ruin our friendship because he is a really good mate.
Alice
Dear Alice,
Just leave things the way they are. Try to control yourself, and with time you will find yourself forgetting about this confusion.
Don’t ruin your friendship, and don’t put yourself in an awkward situation.
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i have this same problem with my best friend and i agree with me having faught this feeling for about a year now, i think its still best to leave it alone. cuz i know that the friendship will be ruined if anything happens so just be good friends and leave it alone.
That's the thing, i have gone through many friendship with guys..and i end up with the conclusion that there is no such thing as a girl and a guy JUST friends...there is always this weird feeling somewhere...from either side...that just ruins everything..and I can garantee this..
there is no such innocent relationship between a girl and a guy...there must be some sort of attraction between them that happens sooner or later.
girl you no what you should just love him and dont worry about your friendship he will be your friend no matter what just tell him what you fell and mabe there might be that slight chance might want you.so go for it girl dont be scared
I know the siuation far too well, i was friends with Dan for 3 years and for 2 of those years i fancied the pants off him and it really hurt when he told me about all the girls he pulled, thinking we were just best friends.
I tried really hard to get him to notice me and he asked me out, after telling me he had fancied me since the weekend
he dumped me the week later.
it took me 2 years to pluck up the courgae and tell him, whereas it took him jus 3 days.
it also took him a week to break my heart.
so my advice is, whatever you do, do it quick and dont wait around. if he rejects u, then it will be easier to get over and u will be able to move on.
if u dont act fast it will get worse and worse, and much harder to get over.
dont let him walk over you either
becky xxxxxxxxxxxxxx