I broke up with my boyfriend because he cheated on me. I am falling in love with a guy whom I met over the net. He is a Trinidadian like myself. He has a child who lives in Trinidad. I have met with him and his family. He is talking about marriage. He is 29. Now I am falling back in love with my ex. My ex wasn’t nice to me. He cheated with a woman with 2 children, she is much older than him. She got pregnant for him twice.
What do I do? Should I give up both men and get my life back in order. I pray that one day I would forget about all of this and start over. But I have been with my boyfriend for 3 years, 7 months and 2 weeks. How could he not love me? I don’t know what to do again.

Faith

Dear Faith,

Time has nothing to do with whether he loves you or not, it is his actions that say exactly how he feels and what he really is.
He cheated with another woman and got her pregnant, twice! That should tell you the he doesn’t love you, and that he doesn’t deserve you.
You shouldn’t let this get to you, you should get on with your life and find a man that will treat you right, and if this Trinidadian is good, then you should go for it.