I was with this guy only for 3 days I didn't like him at first but now I am in love with him. after we broke up I would talk to him every single day, my feelings tell me that he cares for me but after he went to another state he doesn't even ask about me. I feel hurt because though he doesn't love me I have these really strong feelings for him. I know I should forget him but I always see dreams and signs telling me not to leave him. Though he considers us friends my question is do I stay and how do I know if he loves me back but doesn't want to show it?

Lola

Dear Lola,

You are still young, and 3 days isn’t enough to cook up any real feelings.
If he doesn’t ask about you, then that is that!
The signs you think are telling you to “not forget” him, may be of your own imagination because you are thinking of the boy too much.
Just be friends and enjoy your time with him.