I have REALLY liked my friend for about six months now, he doesn’t know that
I like him, but I am afraid to tell him or do anything because we see each other almost every day, and I do not want things to become awkward. He is two years older than me (which is another reason why I’m afraid to tell him, he may think I’m ok as a friend, but nothing more) I don’t know what to do anymore, I keep liking him more and more, and I know I need to tell him, I just don’t know how.
Can you help me? Should I tell him? And how?
Klet
Dear Klet,
Your problem is a common one, and the solution lies in your hands; if you are ready to take a brave step and maybe “risk” your friendship … but keep in mind that there is 50/50 chance that things will be ok as well!
If you are going to tell him, get him in a comfortable atmosphere, something familiar, and tell him slowly and see what happens … and make it clear that your friendship is going to be the base for any other relationship that might evolve, and that you don’t want to lose that.
Good luck.
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look u have to tell him in an indirect way coz if u told him u might lose him forever trust me & if he didnt under stood make a friend tell him but dont u tell him directly wish u good luck woth him & wish that he loves u too
I have to disagree with mais nassar because I
think you need to tell him yourself, it will mean
more and propably work out for the better. Cause
I sure if someone needs to tell you something
than you would like for that person to tell you.
Trust me if he is a true friend than even if he
want to be more than friends or not, than he will
still be your friend no matter what.
I think you should go for it and ask him. plus, did you know that its better to be friends with a guy then ask him out instead of just asking the guy out and not be friends first. you never know, he may feel the same way about you.