I met this guy over the Internet, we have known each other for almost two years now, he lives far from me yet he came all the way to see me, we met, at the beginning I didn't like the way he looks, then I got used to him, we spent three days together, we had so much fun, we were getting engaged soon then all of a sudden he came out with a new story that he had to go attend his brother’s wedding and he can't get engaged now. We fought and I
decided to leave him after I gave him a choice, either we get engaged or he goes to his brother’s wedding! He decided that he would go to his brother’s wedding. I feel so bad. We still talk to each other every once in a while but I feel so bad. I really don’t know what to do, I can't go back to him but at the same time I can't get him out of my mind.
Maya
Dear Maya,
First of all, Internet relationships as a whole are not based on concrete basis to be called love, your case might be an exception.
Second of all, you made a mistake when you made him choose between Family and Love … each has a special place in ones heart … no one can choose between the two, and it isn’t right!
Thirdly, if you really feel bad, apologize to him and explain yourself.
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Okay, I think that internet relations are dangerous so it's a good thing that u broke up with him...but the reason u broke up with himwas pretty stupid....I mean it's his brother's wedding....if u have a brother or sister and it was their wedding would u like someone to force u not to go? Well think about it. And u broke up with him which is good. But the reason u broke up with him was bad so u should say sorry. But stay broke up with him becuz internet relationships are dangerous. I hope my advice works!
i agree with u lila.
I think you guys had a great internet relationship. But unfortunately that doesnt always the case when meeting face to face. That kind of chemistry differs from the computer. I think you guys just discover that you both are different in person. I think you guys can continue to be great friends. But I think the magic is gone. You care still connected to him because you shared two wonderful years with him.
It's hard to let go but I rather spare you the pain now than to be hurt and confused later. You probably cant see where I'm coming from since you are in the middle of it. But in time, looking back, you will be able to see and make sense of it all.
i know how that is. i have an internet realtionship too, and for those people that say it isn't real love, thier wrong. dont listen to them. but you really shouldn't have made him choose family or love. just tell him your sorry and want to try the realationship again. couples fight, its all the matter in being able to forgive to prove how strong your love is.