I love my boyfriend very much, but lately it seems like he doesn't have time for me. But he does according to him and my friend that talked to him. I want to talk to him about us never spending time together, or him never calling me, but I don't know how to bring it up. Help please.
Angela
Dear Angela,
You have to bring it up because it is important. Sit your boyfriend down, and tell him what you think, and let him explain his point of view. Try to reach a compromise and settle things peacefully. What is important is that you love each other, and that you don’t want to loose the relationship.
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Well wen he dont have time for u ....get the time u want!!! Make it ur way or the highway.... If u love u and respects u then he will give u time...if not....their are more fish in the sea!!!
well may b he thinks ur not relly interested in spending time wid him n he has no other option but to make u feel the same way he feels.
First of all sit him down and have a chat with him. Then if he continues to not spend time with u break up with him becuz u can't just waste ur time trying to get him to spend time with u!!! Maybe ur wasting ur time but ur true love is out there!
My friends boyfriend suddenly 'didnt have time for her' he didnt even go to her prom becuase he wanted to get a goodnites sleep!! I said to my friend that maybe hes giving u a message or something and she still had high hopes for him. a few weeks later he broke up with her over the internet. They were best friends since they were 5 and she was absolutley devestated . So the way i see it if someone loves u they will make time for u and try to keep you happy. No girl should be put on hold untill her boyfriend feels like seeing her.
I know exactly what your going through....i am in a long distance reelationship and it seems that my bf never wants to talk or see me...i am too afraid to talk to him about it because i know he'll tell me its work and he's just tired...i dont wanna break up with him...but its almost like im going to have to....just wanted you to know that you are not alone and there are plenty of guys out there that would do anything for you...you just have to find the right one
hi angela i really half tol say if doesn't want u then wats the point of u wanting him so dump him before he dumps u and u get devistated and heart broken so he knows next time never to mess with u and make u sad thats what i did with my boy friend and know he wants to get back but i don't
You should try to be more elusive. I know it is hard, but it works. Once he sees you are not calling him, he is going to wonder where you are.
Bottom line is...if he doesn't have time for you...he doesn't care....guys always have time for what they want....