She Won't Open Up To Me

I'm dating a girl that wont open up to me and tell me her deeper thoughts and whatnots. She only seems to talk about what's on the surface and stuff that I would call boring. How can I get her to open up?

Christian

Dear Christian,

You will have to take the initiative of opening serious subjects and see what she has to say about them. Then slowly divert the conversation to personal aspects, and see whether she will interact with you or not.
This way you will be able to find out if she is a shallow person or not.

2 Comments
  1. Sihem from Los Angeles | June 1, 2005 2:22 AM

    Christian!

    Just to talk straight forward to her and ask her !! It's all about communication..ask you get an answer ...

    Sihem from Los Angeles
  1. trying to help | June 11, 2005 5:27 PM

    hi, i think ull have to open up to her first then maybe she'll start telling u her thoughts and how she feels if u really like her dont give up on her.

    trying to help